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這幾年,因為孩子要上大學,上了大學我經常去逛紫檀學習一下,(其實是學習了一下又一下),也看到很多形形色色滿懷喜悅的中國父母:有顯擺自己的娃年薪40達不溜的,有顯擺自己的娃找到好工作的,有顯擺自己的娃找了不同種族的對象的,也有說自己的娃就是自己的娃不和別的娃攀比的,反正,不同的父母對自己的教育方法和教育結果都有不同的期待和不同的理解。
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不知道別人怎麽理解對娃的教育,但是,我不遠萬裏背井離鄉到美國來的目的之一就是讓自己孩子接受更好的教育,把下一代培養成為更出色的自己。這個應該就是大中國最近經常提到的“初心”了。不過,孩子上了大學,我就把我的初心給忘了。(忘不忘初心,Who cares?)
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但是,看到提到父母對孩子教育的成功與否。我覺得,每個人都有每個人自己的標準。有的人的標準是高薪,有的人的標準是名校,有的人的標準是婚姻,有的人的標準是洋娃,有的人的標準是開心,有的人的標準是健康,有的人的標準是無所謂,反正,五花八門形形色色什麽樣的標準都有。
我自己,當然也有對教育孩子成功的一個模糊標準,沒有具體的量化,沒有具體的指標也沒有具體的數據,我覺得,方向對了,其它的差不多就行了。
![love – and is it all in the mind 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首先,成功的教育是培養孩子有一顆愛心,愛自己,愛家庭,愛親友,愛社會,愛小動物,愛世間一切可愛的事物。我覺得,孩子有一顆愛心是她/他成長進步的基礎,孩子的愛心,不但可以讓別人感受到幸福和快樂,也可以成就她/他自己的一生。
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其次,成功的教育是培養孩子有一份不斷努力的心態。學習努力,運動努力,工作努力,做人努力,隻要是做一件事情,就要努力去做,盡自己所能,把自己的事情做到最好。比如掙錢,不一定非要把目標鎖定在年薪40萬,隻要努力,年薪400萬,4000萬也是可以接受的。
![Learn Something New - CET](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTbMMthFlRAwEnHpnGOL6iA3GfIMOeSrazMeg&s)
再者,成功的教育是培養孩子養成一個學習的習慣。在這個擁有各種爆炸的年代,隻有不斷的學習,不斷地充實自己,不斷地和時代保持同步,才能夠不被這個時代拋棄。這個世界上,有很多引領世界的人,我不知道我的娃能不能引領世界。但是,我根據孩子上的大學的培養理念:“培養改造世界的人”,起碼不能讓孩子落後於這個世界的發展。因此,孩子有不停地學習的習慣,是教育成功的指標之一。
![堅持是一種品格圖片- tt98圖片網](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSBeI4z_3Zu1epmys2OqulmqwBEjB-nTwDgjw&s)
如果再加上一個成功的指標,那就是堅持!
基於以上幾點我對我們老中教育孩子成功不成功的看法,我審視一下我自己過去這二十年來對孩子的教育過程,我覺得,我基本上可以跨進我自己教育成功的門檻。因為我的孩子有愛心,一直在努力,不斷學習還堅持。基本上符合我對教育成功的解讀。當然,做父母的希望孩子更好,就像奧林匹克忽悠人們的口號一樣:更高,更快,更強。
![Building on a Firm Foundation — IBL ...](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSQZCfA3eoZdehEed5Rmal-iZ3rkq3BfN772w&s)
其實,我們隻是給孩子們打下一個基礎,至於孩子們怎麽發展,那就是她/他們自己的事情了。反正,父母們認為自己做的對,做的有成效,那就是成功了。
What do you think?
《版權教育所有,翻印成功不究》
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回複 '奔特累' 的評論 : 嗯呢,嗯呢。
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十分讚同文中的標準。 個人所感,認為還應該讓孩子擁有健康的體魄和養成良好的運動習慣。 功名利祿非我所愛,孩子健康,平安,快樂,就是成功的教育。
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回複 '湘雨瀟瀟2018' 的評論 : 謝謝瀟雨湘湘。
湘雨瀟瀟2018 發表評論於
讚同。不斷學習,努力發展。
mychina 發表評論於
回複 '我愛梔子花' 的評論 : 能養活自己,應該是最基本的。
我愛梔子花 發表評論於
最基本的是身心健康,能養活自己,再好一點能成家,再好一點,生兒育女。
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回複 'Nekono_88' 的評論 :
"不鳴則已,一鳴驚人"---
絕對應該加上。
語不驚人死不休。
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回複 '野彪' 的評論 : 嗯,你說的特別的對!
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牛哥三觀很正,有這樣的三觀,才是真正的成功者。
名校和高薪,當然是好事情,但不是人生成功的唯一標準。有些東西除了可以用來炫耀以外,其實沒有什麽實質的用處。而需要炫耀才可以心安的人,本身就是一種缺憾。
孩子不是家長教育出來的,而是家長做出來的。自己是怎樣的人,孩子就是怎樣的人。所以律己比教育孩子更重要。
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回複 '一個沒有驚豔的老樹' 的評論 : 你不但合格,你還超額!
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回複 'Nekono_88' 的評論 : 哈哈哈,這個挖的夠深!
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回複 '美衡' 的評論 : 哈哈,不客氣呀。
一個沒有驚豔的老樹 發表評論於
hahaha, 按照牛弟的說法,我也合格了。
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回複 '魅力野花' 的評論 : 牛黃就是指牛科動物家牛、黃牛或水牛的膽囊結石,牛哥肚子裏本身自備,何須再吃。換一味藥來。
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真知灼見,我們受益非凡!謝謝牛哥!
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回複 '風中的葦絮' 的評論 : 嗯,不應該給自己設置一個限製點。
風中的葦絮 發表評論於
謝謝牛哥分享育兒好文章!我特別喜歡這個金句:“隻要努力,年薪400萬,4000萬也是可以接受的”,哈哈。
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回複 'Nekono_88' 的評論 : 公雞打鳴!
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回複 'Nekono_88' 的評論 : 哈哈哈!
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回複 '魅力野花' 的評論 : 要加上,不鳴則已,一鳴驚人。
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回複 'mychina' 的評論 : 成不成功,有書為證《和女兒一起成長》Publisher: 美國南方出版社(January 8, 2024)。
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回複 'diaowm' 的評論 : 謝謝!
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回複 '魅力野花' 的評論 : 那叫:安宮牛黃丸!
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Well written!
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回複 'mychina' 的評論 :
回牛哥的話兒,“七上八下”的意思是:
模棱兩可,稀裏糊塗,心神不定,煩亂不安。
該“吃牛黃安宮丸”了。
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回複 '魅力野花' 的評論 : 七上八下是什麽意思?
魅力野花 發表評論於
養娃成功是個永恒的話題。
它可能是千篇一律,莫衷一是,高屋建瓴,也可能是模棱兩可,高不可攀,陰陽怪氣,諱莫如深,高高在上,盛氣淩人,獨占鼇頭,洋洋得意,退避三舍,趾高氣昂,陽春白雪,下裏巴人,光宗耀祖,低三下四,咄咄逼人,旁敲側擊,招搖過市,眾說紛紜,指鹿為馬,自欺欺人,悔不當初,人雲亦雲,揚眉吐氣,回腸蕩氣,白馬王子,小家碧玉,雞鳴狗盜,凡夫俗子,高屋建瓴,誨人不倦,不恥下問,朝三暮四,婦孺皆知。
野花妹妹交給哲學家牛哥的作業。
鼓勵版,改良版,升華,激勵,改善,催生,進化版。
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回複 '多倫多橄欖樹' 的評論 : 教育孩子去愛,而不是去恨,這個我做到了,這是最重要的事情。
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教會孩子愛,最重要~~