回複海攀的評論:
same feeling, each time when I returned to China, it was always great to meet middle and high school classmates. Juan is actually quite lucky, like me in a small country in Europe; it is almost no chance to meet any alumni / lan yan zhi ji from China
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回複海攀的評論:
same feeling, each time when I returned to China, it was always great to meet middle and high school classmates. Juan is actually quite lucky, like me in a small country in Europe; it is almost no chance to meet any alumni / lan yan zhi ji from China
Being friends is easier than being a couple. 劉娟 doesn't expect his BF to excel as much as 楊小靜, because she is better educated and confident than 楊小靜. She can create her own future. 劉娟 hang on to 小七 for so long, despite he is not as good as her. She may not know what she really wants in a husband yet.
楊小靜 puts the hope of her future entirely on 鄭衛, so she must push him hard for a better life. This can work for some people, except 鄭衛 is not the kind. Part of the problem is how Chinese are educated; 鄭衛 doesn't know what he is really interested in, so he is not motivated in school. The story can be completely different if 鄭衛 found out his passion and worked on it. So many talents are wasted because people didn't pursue their passion in life
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If鄭衛劉娟are together, 劉娟may feel the same way that楊小靜felt -- 鄭衛is too lazy and lack motivation. 劉娟may feel secure with 鄭衛, but she'll find 鄭衛 doesn't really value the same thing as she values. She may push鄭衛 the same way as楊小靜does.