阿原:這兩天剛開始看新買的書:Social Intelligence 作者:Daniel Goleman. 以下引上一段,說明俺如何融會貫通地學習滴。 Neuroscience has discovered that our brain's very design makes it sociable, inexorably drawn into an intimate brain-to-brain linkup whenever we engage with another person. That neural bridge lets us affect the brain-and so the body-of everyone we interact with, just as they do us.
Even our most routine encounters act as regulators in the brain, priming our emothons, some desirable, others not. The more strongly connected we are with someone emotionally, the greater the mutual force. Out most potent exchanges occur with those people with whom we spend the greatest amount of time day in and day out, year after year--particularly those we care about the most. (看,邊界就是這樣模糊滴 ~~~, 後果呢,很嚴重! During these neural linkups, our brains engage in an emotional tango, a dance of feelings.Our social interactions operate as modulators, something like interpersonal thermostats that continually reset key aspects of our brain function as they orchestrate our emotions. The resulting feeling s have far-reaching consequences that ripple throughout our body, sending out cascades of hormones that ... ...(以下省略500字,嘿嘿!) 好吧,俺嚴肅點地說,這樣的過程不止局限於男女相耐!是更廣泛地適應於各種各樣的靈魂親密關係的。程度不同,作用不同!作用不同,程度不同!
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阿原:這兩天剛開始看新買的書:Social Intelligence 作者:Daniel Goleman. 以下引上一段,說明俺如何融會貫通地學習滴。 Neuroscience has discovered that our brain's very design makes it sociable, inexorably drawn into an intimate brain-to-brain linkup whenever we engage with another person. That neural bridge lets us affect the brain-and so the body-of everyone we interact with, just as they do us.
Even our most routine encounters act as regulators in the brain, priming our emothons, some desirable, others not. The more strongly connected we are with someone emotionally, the greater the mutual force. Out most potent exchanges occur with those people with whom we spend the greatest amount of time day in and day out, year after year--particularly those we care about the most. (看,邊界就是這樣模糊滴 ~~~, 後果呢,很嚴重! During these neural linkups, our brains engage in an emotional tango, a dance of feelings.Our social interactions operate as modulators, something like interpersonal thermostats that continually reset key aspects of our brain function as they orchestrate our emotions. The resulting feeling s have far-reaching consequences that ripple throughout our body, sending out cascades of hormones that ... ...(以下省略500字,嘿嘿!) 好吧,俺嚴肅點地說,這樣的過程不止局限於男女相耐!是更廣泛地適應於各種各樣的靈魂親密關係的。程度不同,作用不同!作用不同,程度不同!