回複我沒文化的評論:
膽子大一點。不可能每個人都聯係。挑一些和藹可親的人(像我這種的)。有點知識,深沉,不是一直呱啦呱啦講話的那種。拿到名片後要立刻瞄一眼,看看這個人是不是您要結交的對象。如果是就可以說,以後我有問題,可以跟您聯絡嗎?Do you mind ......? 當然,他們會說他們不mind 的。可是也不能每個人都如此。總之,放輕鬆一點。我們說Networking 非常重要。我九月份要參加一個FDA 及AAPS 在DC 辦的藥品穩定性培訓。我相信一定很多老中會去的。這就是一個很好可以認識同行的機會。過去幾年,我的主要對象是FDA的官員。隻要臉皮厚一點,不怕生,問題就解決了。況且,一般美國人在這種場合,人人都是君子。很樂於幫助別人,這樣更顯出他很了不起,有學問啊。對不?隻要不傷大雅,誇獎兩句譬如 Oh, I enjoy your presentation very much. It is very informational. It is very beneficial to me. I really appreciate your......其實他們有的時候也是在吹牛,不過給他們賞個臉,拉攏關係嗎。又扯遠了!我會在我的文裏適時插入我親身的經曆。不是吹的,那年我到FDA開 End Phase II meeting, 幾個官員我都熟,他們未必記得我,可是,我記得很清楚,我說我在那個會議聽過您發表過。。。他們都會立即回應說,啊,想起來啦。其實,真想起,假想起都無所謂,最少場麵上是維持住了。下來,我們公司的幾個VP都呆了。頻頻說我認識的人可真不少。有時候,FDA官員,還會在發表完後,親自過來向我解釋說他發表的都是老東西。叫我不要介意。我立刻回答,本來這些東西都是基本原理,10年以前就這樣,10年以後還是這些法規,不會有多大變化的。他高興,我也挺樂。就這樣,我們的關係就建立起來了。以後,我去麵試,我就告訴雇主,我認識FDA的誰誰,到了這個份上,你還不給我工作,你這個公司沒轍了。不去也罷。好了,就此,打住。謝謝您的瀏覽與問題。
I have the same feeling as "wo mei wen hua" (sorry that I can't type Chinese on my computer). Can you please give us your suggestions at your convenient time? Thank you!
回複iamhereforfun的評論:
I think the important is to know how to find a good reference. I used Chinese reference sometimes. First, they have to know me very well. Secondly, he has to have the credibility, and then his English is very important. There are many ways to say good things about the candidate. You have to use accomplishment, personality etc. to convince the hiring manager. But my most of references are American. There is one drawback is that the American supervisors or co-workers, they will not brag about you, they always tell the truth. Therefore, you have to be darn sure that they will give you a good reference. When I have time, I am going to write something in the future about the way to find the jobs and the way to interview people or to be interviewed. Thank you for your reading and question.
iamhereforfun 發表評論於
Based on your experience, Do you think the reference from American coworker will be more convincing and powerful than a referenc from a Chinese co-worker , assuming you work in the USA ?
JanAiZhang 發表評論於
一個團體氣氛的好壞,和這個團體的頭是分不開的,一個好頭,是懂得怎樣讓下屬充滿凝聚力的.
有學者風範!
謝謝分享,等下文.
yijibang 發表評論於
回複土村藥師的評論:
我的這個老板大名是Dr. Marvin Oftedahl. 文中提到的周先生,中文名不知,英文名是Dr. Jimmy Jou.兩位都是難得的好人,都有學者風範,也都是很好的管理階層的經理。