I never keep in touch with any of my ex-bfs. The reason is very simple: I'm very busy and my free time is limited. I also have lots of friends, more than I have time for. They're just not important enough for me to keep in touch with. I need my time and energy for the new bf. ;) And if I have spare time, then family and good friends.
聆雪2010-04-16 12:56:01回複悄悄話
The Med-Pharm background of you just reminds me a story of a patient. This young man has a bright future and a lovely girl friend who was deeply in love with him. When they were about to start living a happy life as the legendary prince and princess, he was found to have a fatal disease. He didn't tell his girl about it, but started to abuse himself, over-drunk, iv drug, even had a affair with his girlfriend's girlfriend. His girlfriend was so mad at him and so sad with herself, and finally disappointed and lost patience and broke up with him. Soon after she disappeared from his world, he died, with a heart half broken and half satisfied, because he died with a secret in that heart: he abused him self, simply because he knew his girl friend would be stucked in the sorrow of losing her beloved, and never move on. He thought the only way for her to get out of the moaning and start a new life, is to eradiccate the love in him, so that he started to destroy his beautiful impression in her heart. He was finally successfully helped her to removed him from her world, in such an awlful way. Anyway, he was peacefully died.
Unfortunately he didn't know that later on, the girl was never successfully moving him out of her world, and never truly moved on, until the only final way to move him out of her world is to totally destroy her own world......
Luo Hua,
I never keep in touch with any of my ex-bfs. The reason is very simple: I'm very busy and my free time is limited. I also have lots of friends, more than I have time for. They're just not important enough for me to keep in touch with. I need my time and energy for the new bf. ;) And if I have spare time, then family and good friends.
Unfortunately he didn't know that later on, the girl was never successfully moving him out of her world, and never truly moved on, until the only final way to move him out of her world is to totally destroy her own world......
其實我很多時候想裝裝做第一條,但是學不會做不來。
如果兩個人分手之後依舊可以做朋友做的事……那說明我喜歡你做的菜
如果兩個人分手之後我不再見你並大聲說我恨你……那說明我不喜歡你做的飯
如果兩個人分手之後我們在彼此的世界消失了……那說明我不喜歡你做的菜
哈哈~~~~~~~~~ 一個吃貨的看法:)))))))))))))
第3條:“如果兩個人分手之後我不再見你並大聲說我恨你……那說明我不舍得離開你”
我的體會:如果大聲說“我恨你”是真心的話,那麽,我是先前愛上了不值得愛的人,且受到一些精神和感情上的傷害。如果大聲說“我恨你”是故作姿態,講反話,那我同意第3條。
如果兩個人分手之後我們在彼此的世界消失了我不再見你並大聲說我恨你……那說明我真的愛你又不舍得離開你……可是依然恨你,又怎麽能算消失
如果我真的愛你而又不得不分手……那最後一件禮物隻能是還你以自由,象小人魚那樣,自己變成泡沫,從愛人的世界真正消失。泡沫本無心,故亦無世界,由來無一物,何故可傷心。。。
然而這世上最大的傷心其實是無可傷心。。。所以還是在你的世界裏把我埋進一個角落吧,讓最後一刻的淒美永遠定格,我不會攪擾你的自由,隻是默默地做那隻千百年前被封入琥珀的蜘蛛。。。
i guess only those two know, maybe they don;t even know...
so complicated....
情天恨海,而又,覆水難收!