周末

這個周末沒有休息，因為另一個住院醫生家人來看她，所以我每天上班，有點精神疲勞。

下班以後決定去剪頭發。熟識的女孩子不在，給我剪頭發的是一個麵生的女孩子，開始我還沒覺得，但是坐下來以後，椅子太低了，女孩子竟然沒有踩椅子調整高度，而是很緊張地彎著腰開始整理我的頭發，我暗自覺得不好。然後她幫我分頭路的時候分在正中間，不是我自然的頭路，我說我的頭路在這裏，她說如果分偏頭路，她可能會剪得兩邊不齊，我又是咯噔一下，嗬嗬。左右看看，忽然很想走人了，我是短頭發，剪得不好的話是很明顯的。

但是女孩子已經開始彎著腰兢兢業業地開始剪了，一邊剪一邊問我是不是短到這裏就可以了，雖然她拿剪刀，捋頭發的手勢，連我這個外行看著都是很生硬，但是看著她因為緊張而有點粉紅的臉頰，她看著我頭發專注的眼神，我都不好意思說什麽。

時間一點點過去了，女孩子還在那裏彎著腰，左右對比著，反複決定是不是要剪掉某簇頭發，然後不時地抬頭看看我的表情。為了不讓她更緊張，我也很累了，於是索性閉起眼睛養神了。

忽然想起來，我隻不過是把頭發交給一個陌生人，誰能夠想象，那些在醫院的病人，把自己的生命交給素不相識的人，而且知道他們是如果這個理發的女孩子一樣的新手。有時候在醫院上班的時候，我們之間會相互抱怨，那個病人真是很demanding，什麽都要問，那個家屬好難纏啊，要求多得不得了，現在想來都是可以理解的。

坐在那個椅子上，我忽然很有感觸，嗬嗬。

花了不少時間，頭發終於剪好了。我幾乎要睡著了。轉了一圈看看，其實挺不錯的，cute的波波頭，臨走的時候還買了他們的樹茶油薄荷香波和護發素，買一送一。我說你剪得很好看，我很喜歡，女孩子很開心，連聲跟我說謝謝。

回到家裏，迎麵是下午的陽光，前幾天買的雛菊應和著窗外的秋陽，邊上是德國買的花園天使。即興拍照留念，嗬嗬。

[飯桌]

great 感悟! you are such a kindness understanding and consideration girl! I like your writing

[小泥山]

落花，

看過之後是會心的微笑.喜歡你的每一篇文章. （ZT）

我總在你這兒潛水，幾乎沒冒過泡。今天沒憋住，嗬嗬。

非常喜歡你的心情故事，也感謝你上次提供的乙肝的知識。

你對縱然平行的答複，我也極其讚賞！

[dadaland]

always stand by your side:)

[落花飄零]

dadaland，謝謝你的支持。：）
punny,泳者，frog rain thunder,謝謝你們的留言，很開心可以和你分享這些小小的片斷，並且能夠遠遠隔著網絡，會心地微笑。：）

[Fog_Rain_Thunder]

看過之後是會心的微笑.喜歡你的每一篇文章.

[泳者]

看書看累了，來看看榜樣的生活，還是很解乏的。就象樓下某人說的，智慧的人對生活可以有隨時隨地的淡淡感悟，不但對自己有益，對讀者來說，也很有幫助啊～（受益者語）

[punny]

很喜歡陽光透過百頁窗灑進來的樣子 ：）
的確如此，在剛出道的時候，很多新手似乎都是這麽戰戰兢兢的，一些寬容一些信任一些諒解是對他們很好的鼓勵 ：）

[dadaland]

落花，每個人看世界的角度都不同，又怎麽會有相同的結論和感悟呢？嗬嗬，不必在意。我不擅寫作，怕堅持不了，不如不寫。看你的文對我即是放鬆和享受啦。
順便冒昧一下，致縱然平行，同一個窗口不可能既有清晨又有傍晚的陽光，這是一個常識；是景激發了人的創作願望，還是為拍照而拍照，又是兩個問題。何必苛求別人完美？這樣有些想當然，又稍嫌賣弄，偏離了讀博以及溝通的意義：）

[落花飄零]

dadaland,aprilwind, appleflower， 你們都是一個賽似一個的冰雪聰明，藝術修養也比我高得多，我建議你們都開博，寫出來大家一起感悟，嗬嗬。
縱然平行，yeah right, you wrote whole long piece of comment then ask me to rest well? hehe.
i don't know many female residents you know, but your comment is very biased, just like your opinion about female as always, i mentioned before in your blog.but there is nothing to argue about, as we all have different perspectives of this world.

about the "cheese", i got it from a garden store, it was never designed as a nightstand, i don't know where you get this idear, hehe.

sorry for the water, i didn't change for 3 or 4 days since i am in ICU this month and barely awake when i come home, but also because the flowers come with some "powder" that you can put in the water to make flower last longer, that might contribute to the water color too.

and i wish i can see the sunshine in the morning, but i always have to go work early and rarely enjoy it, that's why i am so excited to see the sunshine when i came back.

i don't want to swear on anything because this is really not a big deal, and i don't know what kind of training you had to make you so confident giving judgement here. after all, how many things in this world you are actually sure about?

this is just a small diary i wrote about a moment of my day, and turns out i have to spend more time to explain it, which totally ruins the pleasure when i was writing it.sigh...

[縱然平行]

Interesting piece! I am wondering where you got such flair of “English Patience”:). I always thought that young female residents in hospitals, as a group, are usually a bunch of exhausted, irritated, obnoxious, egocentric, manipulative control freaks. Of cause, I am sure your are not in the pack of the those alpha females :).

In case you get offended by my coments, you can laugh at me at my expense. Nowadays, guys like us work in financial sector are hopelessly believed by people in NYC or elsewhere as wicked demons with severe delusional disorders, who have been indulging their greed in a de-moralized zone and careless about the rest of the world :(. Are you feeling a little better now ?

Back to your realization about relinquishing control, it certainly holds true that letting an inexperienced hair stylist messes round a person’s hair may not result in same devastating consequence as that causes by an incorrect decision from a young doc ( after all, hair do grow back, yet a mistake from medical fields may not be so forgiven ). However, to put things in perspective, your reflection might touch a good point. Simple fact is that laying back and putting faith in other person’s hands is easy said than done in many circumstances; many of us may need to learn the art to steer clear from control-in-all-the-time mode and give other people a chance.

Allow me to shift lighter side, In reference to your pic on the top, few things puzzle me . a. Who moved the “cheese” ? ( substitute “cheese” with nightstand) b. The water in flower vase/pitcher appeared to be about a week old. c. Based upon the angle that sunrays traveled trough the windows the time frame for the picture to be taken seemed to be in the morning rather than in the afternoon.

Do you see I am tormenting you by taxing your patience and integrity ?

Rest well.

[AppleFlower]

Great analogy! Luo Hua, you're so nice. I would've totally freaked out and ran away from that girl. :)

[Aprilwind]

象往常一樣,真喜歡你的照片.

[dadaland]

喜歡你隨時隨地的淡淡感悟，真是個智慧的女孩，願保持一個好心情!