I never keep in touch with any of my ex-bfs. The reason is very simple: I'm very busy and my free time is limited. I also have lots of friends, more than I have time for. They're just not important enough for me to keep in touch with. I need my time and energy for the new bf. ;) And if I have spare time, then family and good friends.
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The Med-Pharm background of you just reminds me a story of a patient. This young man has a bright future and a lovely girl friend who was deeply in love with him. When they were about to start living a happy life as the legendary prince and princess, he was found to have a fatal disease. He didn't tell his girl about it, but started to abuse himself, over-drunk, iv drug, even had a affair with his girlfriend's girlfriend. His girlfriend was so mad at him and so sad with herself, and finally disappointed and lost patience and broke up with him. Soon after she disappeared from his world, he died, with a heart half broken and half satisfied, because he died with a secret in that heart: he abused him self, simply because he knew his girl friend would be stucked in the sorrow of losing her beloved, and never move on. He thought the only way for her to get out of the moaning and start a new life, is to eradiccate the love in him, so that he started to destroy his beautiful impression in her heart. He was finally successfully helped her to removed him from her world, in such an awlful way. Anyway, he was peacefully died.
Unfortunately he didn't know that later on, the girl was never successfully moving him out of her world, and never truly moved on, until the only final way to move him out of her world is to totally destroy her own world......
