職場改過自新：第一天

很感謝大家上周末的幫助，我想與大家分享我的改過自新過程，讓大家監督，少走一些彎路，與大家一起成長。改過自新就從今天開始吧。

今天根據大家的建議，做了幾點與平時不一樣的事情：

上班第一件事：到小老板板公室，說我接受年度評分，為上周為此爭論道歉，謝謝她多年的栽培。平時我的處事方式確有不妥。希望她以後多多提醒，糾正不足之處。

She feels sorry for her harsh method. Last weekend, she recalled the process and realized her method for the review was not appropriate. The big boss talked to her and checked if she used an appropriate way to deliver the message to me last Friday, after the talk she came to my office. The big boss does not want to make me panic, and go to another polar. This year, most management team members will get the lowest score.

第二件(從土包子學到的)：visited the head of the department, who complaint my rudeness to the big boss, had a small talk about her vacation, family (She just returned to the office after vacation), my vacation plan, shopping ...ect.

第三件(從小謀學到的)：After receiving analysis results from one of the head's reports, sent an appreciation email to the department

第四件：Had a small talk with one of the middle management members of that department during lunch time.

Then, got an email from my small boss: asked me "Just don’t be too hard on yourself" and a Daily Leadership Quote specialy for me：The ability to honestly and quietly reflect on one's life is one of the most powerful tools for personal growth.

第五件：Visited my big boss before leaving office, expressed my great appreciation for the opportunity of improving myself, and understanding whatever way my small boss used was just trying to wake or beat me up.

They will send me to a leadership training program in the coming September.

第六件：回家在這兒請大家幫忙，看哪些我可以做得更好

謝謝！

所有跟帖： 

• 不叫你“不動如山”嗎，不要180度嗎？你小老板也是這個意思 -waitGC- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 15:52:52

• 能不能請你講一下“不動如山”的高見？我覺得今天轉了1度。 -Hill- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 16:13:11

• 黔之驢是怎麽死的？ 你動了，變了，就暴露了 -waitGC- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 16:17:46

• 是這個理。但我覺得我沒大錯，暴露了，敵方也難殺掉。他們總要人幹活的人，對吧？ -Hill- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:17:01

• 換個工作就那麽難嗎？ -dropinto- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:20:53

• 即使換個工作，我還會有同意的問題，對吧？ -Hill- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:27:45

• 回複：即使換個工作，我還會有同樣的問題，對吧？ -Hill- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:28:21

• 總會找到欣賞你的吧 -dropinto- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:34:11

• hill 不要換工作的好。其實，我感覺大小老板都是欣賞hill的。換了到失策了。 -戲雨飛鷹- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:40:45

• 方法狠了點，感覺讓人沒了自我 -dropinto- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:42:33

• 我本人確實覺得交流技術有問題，leadership skill 0 -Hill- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:43:18

• 你為啥非要當leader -dropinto- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:44:45

• 不是說不想當元帥的兵不是好兵嗎？ -Hill- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:57:16

• 這都是騙人的話 -dropinto- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:59:06

• 各位高手，你們都是經過大風浪的，我所在的小鎮民風純樸，公司也小，也是我第一份正式工作（不算博後）。不要太嚇我，讓我迷失方向哦！ -Hill- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 18:11:28

• ... -dropinto- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 15:58:57

• 想起來了，樓主是急性子 -dropinto- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 16:05:37

• 這叫江山易改，本性難移啊！ -Hill- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 16:14:22

• 和老大的飯局定了嗎？ -dropinto- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 16:16:44

• 回複：和老大的飯局定了嗎？ -Hill- ♀ (16 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:04:01

• 回複：回複：和老大的飯局定了嗎？ -dropinto- ♀ (12 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:07:11

• 他宰我沒商量，要我帶瓶Burgundy -Hill- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:10:15

• 二鍋頭應該比Burgundy好 -dropinto- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:12:06

• 開玩笑吧. -小謀- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 18:44:54

• 我覺得你做到很棒！hats off:) . but for the 第一件事, -戲雨飛鷹- ♀ (146 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 16:22:49

• sorry for the missing word. "I" still THINK the score was ... -戲雨飛鷹- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 16:24:11

• 回複：sorry for the missing word. "I" still THINK the score was ... -Hill- ♀ (128 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:13:52

• yes, that's a smart move. Overall, hill did a good job. Keep it -真是土包子- ♂ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 20:49:17

• 有點過了.不要太委屈自己, 過於委曲求全是得不到別人的尊重的.. -oldCar- ♀ (20 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 16:26:04

• 其實，從小老板的反應上可以看出：HILL做得不錯。 -戲雨飛鷹- ♀ (26 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 16:30:17

• 小老板已經說說得很明顯 -waitGC- ♀ (68 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 16:35:53

• 回複：小老板已經說說得很明顯 -Hill- ♀ (98 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:07:22

• 可惜，我們都明白那英語的意思，就你自己沒明白 -waitGC- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:19:35

• 那個polar可能什麽都是，就是不是LZ -dropinto- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:24:48

• 這點很重要，是我領會錯了？能不能點撥點撥？ -Hill- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:26:31

• 老實說，就衝你這翻譯，說明你太自我，太不sensitive, 太不considerate -waitGC- ♀ (120 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:27:45

• 所以我需要提高呀！ -Hill- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:30:35

• 歸根結底，你不能認識自己的問題，還把人家的話加上對自己的表揚 -waitGC- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:30:30

• 請進一步點撥！ -Hill- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:32:29

• I'm with you, hill. I don't think you misunderstood that word. -戲雨飛鷹- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:36:32

• actually, -dropinto- ♀ (89 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:39:47

• 其實HILL表麵上'全盤'接受對方的觀點, 是一種消極的'對抗'. -oldCar- ♀ (34 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 18:15:41

• 我準備過幾天就去爭點回來呢。 -Hill- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 18:17:50

• 嗬嗬, 你這麽一說, 就知道你還沒明白. 慢慢來. 別急著動. -小謀- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 18:43:55

• 回複：職場改過自新：第一天 -LittlePencil- ♀ (731 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 16:51:39

• 回複：回複：職場改過自新：第一天 -Hill- ♀ (153 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:22:00

• 山坡對美利堅的文化太缺乏了解，可歎。 -多哥- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 16:56:27

• 怎講？ -dropinto- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:08:03

• CO 請講 -Hill- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:58:59

• 美利堅的文化尤其是職場文化，博大精深。像 -多哥- ♀ (832 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 18:55:10

• see，hill, you dont need to worry much about the low score. -戲雨飛鷹- ♀ (162 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:33:59

• 回複：see，hill, you dont need to worry much about the low score. -Hill- ♀ (111 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:40:46

• 會不會和降工資掛鉤？ -dropinto- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:43:52

• 我們四月分剛升工資。降？除非銷售明顯下跌？ -Hill- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:46:33

• 我開玩笑呢，不過真要降，你就賺了 -dropinto- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:49:04

• 尚有疑問...... -曾國藩- ♂ (345 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:45:46

• 回複：尚有疑問...... -Hill- ♀ (56 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:49:57

• 回複：回複：尚有疑問...... -Hill- ♀ (104 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:54:45

• 公司上下除了你有這樣的嗎？你被逐步剝奪了權利。 -waitGC- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 18:02:22

• 比較常見！你可以說我被逐步剝奪了權利。但我本來就沒權利。 -Hill- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 18:15:49

• 回複：回複：回複：尚有疑問...... -曾國藩- ♂ (132 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 18:08:03

• 回複：回複：回複：回複：尚有疑問...... -Hill- ♀ (30 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 18:13:36

• 太事兒了，廣告詞兒說得好：沒什麽大不了的 -龍少爺- ♂ (44 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:53:24

• 龍少啥時候當老大呀？ -dropinto- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:57:43

• 龍少已經當老大了呀！在北美要當官？那還不如辭職不幹呢 -龍少爺- ♂ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 17:58:50

• 唉！這把年紀了，學問也做到這了，很多骨子了的東西， -靜聽海- ♀ (122 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 18:26:49

• 真忙呼.一天做這麽多. 我昨天就想告訴你悠著點. 這是一個過程. -小謀- ♀ (561 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 18:40:03

• 回複：職場改過自新：第一天 -curiousGeorge2- ♂ (542 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 19:09:43

• 不能同意更多，如果您能同意的話。~~ -多哥- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 19:13:43

• 有道理....似乎有同感...個人理解,著已經是板上釘釘的事實 -lile- ♀ (70 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 20:44:48

• 忍字頭上一把刀,,,忍了把....我好象經曆有點相似的經曆 -lile- ♀ (119 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 20:52:09

• 用你是公司的選擇不用也是公司的選擇..象你這樣上竄下跳的... -lile- ♀ (196 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 21:13:23

• 你一直退的話,他們會得寸進尺 -13579801- ♂ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 20:02:08

• 為你高興.參加 leadership training program 說明你很受重視! -真是土包子- ♂ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 20:50:32

• I think that you are doing just fine. -jill08- ♀ (40 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 20:54:23

• 沒必要，回學校去做飯可提。一個人性格不是所改就能改的。 -多哥- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 21:00:37

• Learn day by day. -jill08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 21:14:22

• 陽光的心態是應該的但也不能忽視陰暗麵。請參研我的“博大精深”論。 -多哥- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 21:21:07

• Where is the link? -jill08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 21:25:35

• 就在上麵第29層呀.是給博士生的論文指導方向,讀來很費神。 -多哥- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 21:37:16

• 供你研究，我就抄錄在裏麵。請進。。。 -多哥- ♀ (836 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 21:47:23

• Oh, very interesting. -jill08- ♀ (480 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 21:48:09

• 是這樣，但山坡對此吃不住的。 -多哥- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 21:54:14

• People have different perceptions of what the main thing is. -jill08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 21:55:59

• 所以要提醒她，組織上已 -多哥- ♀ (122 bytes) () 07/13/2009 postreply 22:03:42