You have a hidden agenda but

everybody already figured that out.  I read your previous posts.  When you asked for direct reports, your boss knew your intention is not to get the job done but to build your own team to increase your "influence".  When you suggest making changes to process or clearly define your JD, people know your true intention is to define "who direct who", "who talk to who", the fact that you do not feel secured made you hungry for power, over calculated in dealing with colleagues,  unfortunately, you did not hide your agenda that well, everybody figured that out.  Nobody likes a over ambitious, over calculated and abrasive co-worker in their team, that is way people in your team did not even give you a warm goodbye lunch.

Sorry, I may too harsh on you but that how I feel.

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我覺得你說的還是有些道理。 -拉兄弟一把- 給 拉兄弟一把 發送悄悄話 (763 bytes) () 08/19/2015 postreply 23:16:25

我沒那麽雄心大誌,不然我不會在沒下家的時候主動提出辭職。。。。。要人要產品都是A給我出的主意啊。。。。 -wolikeyou- 給 wolikeyou 發送悄悄話 (1767 bytes) () 08/19/2015 postreply 23:38:40

你說了那麽多,都是怪別人。什麽都是A或者老板的錯。連雇個人,都假想老板要害你,其實你自己連最基本的責任分配都搞不清楚, -Tove- 給 Tove 發送悄悄話 Tove 的博客首頁 (61 bytes) () 08/20/2015 postreply 00:20:38

我怪別人了麽?我就陳述事實而已 -wolikeyou- 給 wolikeyou 發送悄悄話 (847 bytes) () 08/20/2015 postreply 01:32:03

妹妹我說你一句別生氣,也許你主觀上在找原因,但從旁觀者的角度看你在找借口。 -廢話多多- 給 廢話多多 發送悄悄話 廢話多多 的博客首頁 (159 bytes) () 08/20/2015 postreply 04:12:11

The manpower plan in your dept. -bjhaigui- 給 bjhaigui 發送悄悄話 (956 bytes) () 08/20/2015 postreply 07:22:22

我的職業計劃不是當個data analyst,所以在招人的過程中,我也遊說大家招個有統計背景的人 -wolikeyou- 給 wolikeyou 發送悄悄話 (3443 bytes) () 08/20/2015 postreply 10:14:22

Things you cared about are: -bjhaigui- 給 bjhaigui 發送悄悄話 (1310 bytes) () 08/20/2015 postreply 12:01:11

恩,你分析得太對了,我犯了錯誤,隻是沒有意識到。 我在心理上藐視了他們。盡管我在有些問題上表麵上服從 -wolikeyou- 給 wolikeyou 發送悄悄話 (2202 bytes) () 08/20/2015 postreply 13:15:11

關於expert,說的太精辟了,學到了:) -天蠍- 給 天蠍 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 08/21/2015 postreply 00:28:00

你寫的好像蠻複雜,隻是自己想幹什麽,該怎麽幹,自己應該很清楚吧,為什麽會被別人寄著鼻子走 -arcsigh- 給 arcsigh 發送悄悄話 (182 bytes) () 08/20/2015 postreply 10:27:58

這個其實我也知道。細細分析,自己的言行舉止,都是自己判斷後做出後的行動。無關他人的影響,無論結局如何,都是自己的選擇。 -wolikeyou- 給 wolikeyou 發送悄悄話 (129 bytes) () 08/20/2015 postreply 13:18:59

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