人生經典：身後最多可被記憶60年

我們說某人“一路走好”，通常是當一個我們熟識的人去世後所致的哀詞。標題中的“身後”就是指一個人死後的意思。

按照現代社會標準到三十歲有下一代，一個人活九十歲平均壽命計算，我們普通人死後最多可被記憶六十年。或者說，當你死了六十年後，無論好壞善惡，基本上沒有人再記住你，更別說懷念或感恩了。得到這樣的結論道理很簡單。首先假定你三十歲開始養育子女。當你九十歲離世時，你的子女六十歲。假定他們也是九十歲離世。因此，當你離世後你可被子女記住的時間是三十年。當然，孫輩也是能記住你的。當你九十離世時，孫輩三十歲。倘若孫輩壽命也是九十的話，理論上你可被孫輩記住六十年。前麵提過，當你九十歲離世，孫輩三十，他們的子女剛問世，算是你的曾孫輩。但曾孫輩對你不會有任何印象，更如何讓他們記憶你？因而，當孫輩九十離世後，你最後也行將成為百分百的一粒塵埃、落寂寰宇，再無人問津。那種感覺就好像你從來就沒有存在過一樣。事實就是如此簡單，稍微有點冷酷。預測到這樣的精準結局，是不是覺得未來其實有些悲催。

因此，活在當下，為己而活無疑是睿智選擇。尤其當你盡責養育子女，他們成家立業。當你盡心孝敬父母，他們百年之後。這時的你也許在剛好停留在花甲之年，是應百分百為自己而活的時候了。因為你想再把握好的生活質量來日已經無多。如果你還要堅持形影不離照顧養育孫輩，就意味著這一生你將是一個徹底的失敗者。在個人主義的積極意義上，你基本屬於一輩子白活。

其實一個人身後即使被記憶一萬年，對於個人的人生品味又有何意義？人生苦短，身後被記憶的時間更短。因此，活出你精彩的人生片段，體驗你真實的生命感受。快樂與幸福僅在你自己的身體及心裏足矣。

文章翻譯成英文：

"Life Classic: Up to 60 Years Can Be Remembered Behind One’s Life  "

When we say that someone is "gone well all the way", it is usually a mourning word after the death of a person we know. The "behind" in the title refers to the meaning of a person’s death.

According to the modern social standard there is a next generation at the age of 30, and the average life expectancy of the 90-year-old is calculated. We can remember up to 60 years after the death of ordinary people. Or, when you have been dead for sixty years, no matter how good or bad, basically no one will remember you, let alone miss or thank you. Getting such a conclusion is simple. First assume that you started raising children at the age of 30. When you died at the age of 90, your children were sixty years old, assuming they were also 90 years old. Therefore, you can be remembered by your child for thirty years after you die. Of course, grandchildren can remember you too. When you are 90, your grandchildren are thirty years old. If the life of a grandchild is ninety, in theory you can be remembered by your grandchildren for sixty years. As mentioned earlier, when you were 90 years old and your grandchildren were 30, their children had just come out and they were your great-grandchildren. But great-grandchildren will not have any impression of you, how can they let them remember you? Therefore, when the grandchildren died in the 90s, you will also become a hundred percent of a dust, a lonely, no one cares. That feeling is like you have never existed before. The truth is that it's so simple, a bit cold. Predicting such an accurate outcome, do you think that the future is actually a sad reminder?

Therefore, living in the present and living for oneself is undoubtedly a wise choice. Especially when you are responsible for raising children, they become a family. When you are dedicated to honoring your parents, they finally died. At this time, you may be just in the year of your sixty ages, it is time to live for yourself. Because you want to grasp the quality of life again, there are not many days left. If you still insist on taking care of your grandchildren, it means that you will be a complete loser in your life leftover. In the positive sense of individualism, you basically belong to a lifetime waster.
In fact, even if a person is remembered for 10,000 years, what is the meaning of personal life taste? Life is short, and the time spent being remembered is shorter. Therefore, live out your wonderful life fragments and experience your true life. Happiness experiences are good enough in your own body and heart. 

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同意你的論奌，除了偉人或是萬惡罪人以?，
大概就是這樣子了，其實別人怎麽記憶你，有何用呢？
把握自己的人生吧。