They always want to appear wealthier than they really are, seriously.
Young men making barely $700 USD/Month don’t mind switching to the latestiPhone every year, and ladies just out of college save month’s of paychecks (most don’t have student loans/debts) to buy a Louis Vuitton tote, only to get scuffed when pushing and shoving themselves cramping onto a bus.
In North America, its safe to say that spending 30%-50% of your salary on a vehicle is reasonable (usually after tax), while in China, most people spend 100% of their yearly income on a vehicle, if not more. Yes imported brands are expensive, but there are plenty of reliable domestic vehicles that are very cheap, but they simply want the upper class image.
In China, people rarely split bills, its almost always one person paying for the rest (regardless of how many people), usually it’s to pay back a favor, or to gain a favor, but it really has became a tradition, and no one splits bills (other than students maybe). While generosity is good, these people stretch the lines, and insist on paying for something that their salary cannot comfortable accommodate.
Differences in culture, values/beliefs, and mindset.
Chinese people, especially the millennials, don’t really embrace their own culture; they worship North America celebrities, listen to English music, and dress according to Western fashion.
Education is almost mandatory, and anyone who doesn’t go to university is seen as illiterate, or inferior to post secondary graduates. University is heavily subsidized by the government, so usually tuition isn’t as hefty as it is in the US. Parents force their kid’s to study hours after school, and go to extra classes/hire tutors to make the highest potential of their school grades.
I have never heard of a wealthy parent in China that expect’s their kids to “work” for money, they simply give them huge allowances, buy them houses/vehicles, and set them for life. Usually they would still expect their kids to have high grades and graduate from university. Most famous people like Jackie Chan only say that they don’t give their kids money, and want them working for it is to benefit their public image. I’m not sure, but I remember reports of Jaycee Chan living very extravagantly. Some people just don’t care, and openly admits to splurging their offspring's. Wang Si Cong, son of billionaire Wang Jian Lin, is living on par with Floyd Mayweather, a self mademan estimated to be worth $400 Million. Wang Si Cong’s interests and hobbies are so costly, that Saudi princes would likely take his numbers seriously! Unlike in Western society, where most wealthy parents choose to make their kid’s work for money, and while some of their kid’s inherit massive wealth, others choose to donate their wealth to charity when they die. Warren Buffet is only leaving 1% of his wealth divided among st 3 children, while Bill Gate’s is reportedly only giving 10 million to each of his children.
Corruption in China is so bad, that its happening on a day to day basis. You can pay the police a few hundred dollars to get out of small trouble, and if your kid’s marks were too low for the best high schools, 20K USD and a sincere handshake to the principal or a powerful member of the ministry of education will guarantee your kid’s acceptance ! In recent years, corruption in higher levels are getting less, but it’s still very easy, and one doesn’t require massive power or wealth in order to achieve bribery.
Drinking and smoking is widely accepted in China (the police won’t even bat an eye at a drunk student), but marijuana and any drugs are strictly prohibited, and possession (over a certain amount) may lead to death penalty!
Cigarettes are basically a currency in China, you could gift a carton of decent ChungHua’s to pay back a favor, or if you’re short on cash, a pack of Marlboro'sand an apology will get you through your cab fare.
Thank you for this wonderful answer! Those kids were really lucky to have you as a teacher.