Too near to hold you?

Let us look back the story: attractive by each other, wirte e-mails every day,call each other 2 hours and more every day, fly to stay with him/ her ,then some probelm be there. he said , it is too near for us ? Too near!! surprise or not. The distance keep the love. But the no space between us kill it. Is that right? I do not know. May be i am too greedy. And the next lesson i should learn is keep distance with the one I love. Never call him even the miss is killing me if he is busy. While, will all that even kill the love. Follow your heart, they told me. When i really follow my heart, things often are out of control.