這家夥離了兩次婚,都是因為婚外戀。剛結了婚一年,老婆很漂亮,是巴西的一個服裝模特。認識這個模特時,他還在結婚。據他說,是出差在巴西的一個健身房認識她的。“I can't live without her。”用他自己的話說。回國後就鬧離婚。我還勸過他。我說,你孩子都要上中學了,別扯了。他說,“I can't live without love。”
他正想回答,有個高個子的美女上來用英文說:“She is chicken, don't talk to chicken!” 他還沒明白怎麽回事,那個被叫“Chicken”的女孩子幹脆用英文跟高個女孩開罵。說:“You are chicken, you are chicken。” 跟高子在一起的另外一個女孩幹脆動起手要打這個“Chicken“。
他看情況不好,就要走,結果高個兒和她的朋友不打了,跟著他走出餐館。他問高個兒,什麽是”Chicken",高個兒說,“Sex, money”。 他明白了,說:“How much?”高個兒說:“I do not know。 $100。00?” 他說:“That's cheap。” 另一個聽到了,說:“Oh, you are rich。” 他問她們是幹什麽的,高個兒說是美術係的學生。這位到知道些藝術,就跟她們聊起來。
“I had the best time of my life in China. Those two girls followed me everywhere I went. Just got an e-mail from one of them today, says she wants to come here. ” 他跟我由衷地說。
一個人沒有了知恥之心、羞惡之心,沒有了負罪意識、懺悔意識,也就意味著他的人性泯滅。一個失去了恥感和罪感的民族,一個底線倫理崩潰了的民族,即使能在某些領域造成暫時的泡沫式強大,但它不可能創造真正的文明。 By Hanxin
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回複mimimimi3的評論:
it ends with a "?" mark. what else?
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You asked the readers "Do not judge the writer based on what you think the writer may think". What do you expect?
This is a judgmental article with a judgmental title. "無恥" is a very judgmental word.
Sure some Chinese women have no dignity. But the title "中國女孩子真會這麽無恥嗎" is very offensive.
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回複TKCD84的評論:
I am sorry, you don't get it either.
You have missed my point totally and come up with some conclusions on your own and thought that was my point.
But thanks for visiting.
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回複7788520的評論:
問題出在哪兒?The problem is I know what I was talking about, but you didn't get it. Do not judge the writer based on what you think the writer may think. That's the problem of many people who just do get it.
回複無妻徒刑的評論:
WOW! Are you serious? Honestly, I respect the two women more than you! At least they might not be as judgemental as you're.
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回複漿糊桶的評論:
I agree with you. Why do some Chinese women behave this way? Don't you think the society, the main-stream media and even the Chinese men have something to do with it? Having said that, I don't mean the two women mentioned in the article should not be blamed. But I won't blame them too hard.
Oh, man, noso, my husband was planning to go back to China to form a company & I was very supportive of this idea. Geez, guess now I need to think twice. Thanks for sharing, noso.
Human nature are similar regardless which race & which country are you coming from. Personally, I normally would not define people Asian, European or American unless there's a need. Of course, the color of our skin are born with & I am very proud of being a Chinese. But I would not declare that I will have to be this or that because I am Chinese. I am a human being first before labeled as Chinese. When I donate & help the less fortunate. I do not pay attention to the race before I sent the money. To me, less fortunate group are the ones who need help, regardless race. I don't know, noso. Maybe I am naive, but I really treat everybody the same regardless where are they coming from.
Success does not equalize confidence, just like education does not equalize dignity & virtue. However, I do agree with you that some Chinese girls does not have a healthy mentality. Here I want to tell all the Chinese JJMM. Chinese guys are the best & Chinese guys are the ones who are most compatable to us Chinese girls.
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回複lanyi的評論:
你最新的回貼我刪了,因為你不僅膚淺而且極其庸俗。
看我的貼對你這種喜歡意淫的的是一種正麵教育,希望你多讀讀曆史,常照照鏡子,看自己還是個中國人嗎。
這是我開的博客,沒請你來裝腔作勢的指手畫腳,以後請你不要再來了。
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回複PlsHelpEB3Interview的評論:
I really don't want to go detail about what really happened. After all, it is not my business who used whom. This kind of things doesn't happen without a reason.
As a very sucessful Chinese man living in US, I care about the images of China and Chinese people. China is the country where I was born and raised. I want nothing but all the best from China.
In this writting, I want to tell all your parents out there or any young girls who is reading this, that people will respect you if you have dignity. People will respect you more if you defend your dignity. To be a respectful people, you need to love yourself and know who you are and where you are from. Young Chinese girls should know, that they will earn no respect from white people if they simply throw themselves at them. That's not what love is all about, there is no love.
That's the whole point of this writting. You either get it or don't. There is no need to judge me. a, I really don't care what other say, b. I know I am right and there are people who will agree with me. Those people are my kind of people. We know what we are talking about. That's all that matters.
Thanks for reading this. I say what I feel and I will keep doing that.
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noso, think about it. Those two girls not only used this 白人as a model for their drawing for free, but also used him for sex as well. I am sure they might will tell their friends about this as well & I am sure this 白人won't feel too good if he hears about how the two girls talks about him with their friends. The girl might had asked 白人to bring her overseas, so what? This 白人is free anyways, why not get more from him. As I said previously, I really feel this 白人is used as a breeding pig here. Don't know why he is bragging to you. Hey, tell him he is a breeding pig & let me know what he says. :-)
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收不收錢是人家自己的事, 別人管不著
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Some of my white girl friends wants to marry Chinese since in their mind, Chinese are rich & educated. In Vegas, cosinos even pay lots of money to remodel the hotel the way Chinsee wants becasue Chinese are their large clients.
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noso, believe it or not. I do know a Chinese guy who can不花錢找倆白妞玩3P. Some 白妞likes Chinese guys because they are financially stable, responsible & sincere. I really think confidence of a nation plays a big factor here in this issue. Pls have confidence in Chinese & pls have confidence that we are an outstanding race & nation.
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I agree with lanyi. I really don't think what happened to your white friend is a big deal. It could happen in any country with any race of people. As a Chinese with great confidence, I really just take it as an individual story. Just like I was pursued by lots of white guy before, I chose a Chinese to be my husband finally only because I want to marry Chinese. Does not mean those white guys lose the face of the country of US. Well, I don't know how to express it, but I really think your friend is just showing off his romance like lots of guys would do. Have confidence & we would just laugh about it or just say, "hey, man, stop showing off & tell me all the stories that you are rejected by good Chinese woman."
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回複彩雲滿天飛的評論:
That will be a serious challenge. : ) At least, if we keep talking about it, people may think twice before they do it.
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回複虔謙的評論:
Long time no c. Thanks.
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回複泉城的評論:
Agree! Ding!
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回複尋夢浮萍的評論:
I can'r stop them doing it, they can't stop me saying it.
If I were you, I would tell your 白人friend that the two Chinese girls might have treated him as a free male hooker. Tell him nowadays it is popular in China for woman to spend money on male hookers. In this case, the two Chinese girls had taken advange of the 白人in a way. Especally when the girl asked me 白人to bring them overseas, obviously, they had treated the 白人as a breeding pig.
It was really shamed when you saw the urgly, old and fat foreigner handed with a beautiful Chinese girl strolling on the streets, you can see a lot in Shanghai. When I read the diary exposed on a blog not far from now, which talking about one guy, who taught English in shanghainese University, had sex with many Chinese girls and ladies, the detailed deion about sex process really want me to kill those urgly Chinese females.
Only if you respect yourself, the others will respect you. This common social value exited all over the world. Also only you love the culture, you will love the country. Only the rubishs would like those shits.
The solely pursuing of economic development neglected the culture development at the meantime. Money- speaking environment demoralized the social culture which has changed the behaviours of young generation, opened-minded, lazy-laboured, life-enjoyed, especially those in the big cities around the coast regions in China. The life attitudes of your peoples are totally different from those of former generations.
Sometime if we can not make any changes, we have to accept. But we have to try to do our best to affect the young peoples around us by our good behaviour, especially the value to the life and social.
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回複Labomba的評論:
Thanks.
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回複lanyi的評論:
你可以說怎麽可笑,我也可以說你沒有血性,沒有做有尊嚴的中國人的勇氣。
你的結論太膚淺,留著自己看吧。
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回複PlsHelpEB3Interview的評論:
The point is that someone would fight against a hooker to sleep with white people for free.
You can say he was played by the two girls,certainly that's not how he feels. Then again, one of them has asked him to support her come over here. That should tell you it was not a sex game, but a calculated play with purpose.
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Why don't you say this 洋人was played by two Chinese girls like a toy. They have a equal relationship in this sex game. Therefore, I really don't get what you are talking about in the article.
Girls like that exist in every country, every corner of the world. Seeing a couple of chinese girls behaving like that does not grant you the right to generalize all chinese girls to that standard. It is just not right. Hate the individuals, not the country.
"關在家裏" is the key word here. That's why a human needs to wear cloth even in a hot summer, and that's the difference between "civilized" and "uncivilized".
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各位:真沒什麽好說的了,笑貧不笑娼,不是什麽社會的進步,而是倒退。
此外,這篇文章已在其它網站給轉載了。
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lol :D hoes are different from chickens :D hahahahahahahaha
anyway, if they just want to have fun, it isn't our business to get all roused up about it, right ?
btw, this friend of yours is in love with love itself, not with any human beings. maybe himself :P
這家夥離了兩次婚,都是因為婚外戀。剛結了婚一年,老婆很漂亮,是巴西的一個服裝模特。認識這個模特時,他還在結婚。據他說,是出差在巴西的一個健身房認識她的。“I can't live without her。”用他自己的話說。回國後就鬧離婚。我還勸過他。我說,你孩子都要上中學了,別扯了。他說,“I can't live without love。”
他正想回答,有個高個子的美女上來用英文說:“She is chicken, don't talk to chicken!” 他還沒明白怎麽回事,那個被叫“Chicken”的女孩子幹脆用英文跟高個女孩開罵。說:“You are chicken, you are chicken。” 跟高子在一起的另外一個女孩幹脆動起手要打這個“Chicken“。
他看情況不好,就要走,結果高個兒和她的朋友不打了,跟著他走出餐館。他問高個兒,什麽是”Chicken",高個兒說,“Sex, money”。 他明白了,說:“How much?”高個兒說:“I do not know。 $100。00?” 他說:“That's cheap。” 另一個聽到了,說:“Oh, you are rich。” 他問她們是幹什麽的,高個兒說是美術係的學生。這位到知道些藝術,就跟她們聊起來。
“I had the best time of my life in China. Those two girls followed me everywhere I went. Just got an e-mail from one of them today, says she wants to come here. ” 他跟我由衷地說。