隨想簿
巴金有《隨想錄》來記錄他晚年的回憶反思。我還沒到晚年，也沒有他那麽多思想。隻有一些零思碎想，就叫“隨想簿”吧。
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(2017-02-15 17:39:44)
TEMPER|Whenthisfoundationisoncewelllaid,andyoufindthisreverencebegintoworkinhim,thenextthingtobedoneiscarefullytoconsiderhistemper,andtheparticularconstitutionofhismind.Stubbornness,lying,andill-naturedactions,arenot(ashasbeensaid)tobepermittedinhimfromthebeginning,whateverhistemperbe:thoseseedsofvicesarenottobesufferedtotakeanyroot,butmustbecarefullyweededout,assoonasevertheybegintoshowthemselves...[閱讀全文]
(2017-02-15 17:22:22)
TUTOR|Ifatutorcanbegot,that,thinkinghimselfinhisfather’splace,chargedwithhiscare,andrelishingthesethings,willatthebeginningapplyhimselftoputtheminpractice,hewillafterwardsfindhisworkveryeasy:andyouwill,Iguess,haveyoursoninalittletimeagreaterproficientinbothlearningandbreeding,thanperhapsyouimagine.Butlethimbynomeansbeathim,atanytime,withoutyourconsentanddirection:atleasttillyouhaveexperience...[閱讀全文]
(2017-02-13 18:54:55)
EXAMPLE|Havingunderconsiderationhowgreattheinfluenceofcompanyis,andhowproneweareall,especiallychildren,toimitation,Imustheretakethelibertytomindparentsofthisonething,viz.Thathethatwillhavehissonhavearespectforhimandhisorders,musthimselfhaveagreatreverenceforhisson."Maximadebeturpuerisreverentia".Youmustdonothingbeforehim,whichyouwouldnothavehimimitate.Ifanythingescapeyou,whichyouwouldhav...[閱讀全文]
(2017-02-13 18:15:50)
Havingnamedcompany,Iamalmostreadytothrowawaymypen,andtroubleyounofartheronthissubject:forsincethatdoesmorethanallprecepts,rulesandinstructions,methinksitisalmostwhollyinvaintomakealongdiscourseofotherthings,andtotalkofthatalmosttonopurpose.Foryouwillbereadytosay,whatshallIdowithmyson?IfIkeephimalwaysathome,hewillbeindangertobemyyoungmaster;andifIsendhimabroad,howisitpossibletokeephimfromthecontagi...[閱讀全文]
(2017-02-13 17:55:52)
COMPANY|Imentionedaboveonegreatmischiefthatcamebyservantstochildren,whenbytheirflatteriestheytakeofftheedgeandforceoftheparents'rebukes,andsolessentheirauthority:andhereisanothergreatinconveniencewhichchildrenreceivefromtheillexampleswhichtheymeetwithamongstthemeanerservants.
夥伴|我在前麵說過，仆人們對於小孩有一個很大的害處，是當他們討好小孩，就減低了父母嗬斥的尖銳與力量，因此損害了父母的威...[閱讀全文]
(2017-02-13 17:46:23)
MANNERS|Manners,astheycallit,aboutwhichchildrenaresooftenperplexed,andhavesomanygoodlyexhortationsmadethembytheirwisemaidsandgovernesses,Ithink,arerathertobelearntbyexamplethanrules;andthenchildren,ifkeptoutofillcompany,willtakeapridetobehavethemselvesprettily,afterthefashionofothers,perceivingthemselvesesteemedandcommendedforit.Butifbyalittlenegligenceinthispart,theboyshouldnotpulloffhishat,norma...[閱讀全文]
(2017-02-13 17:37:34)
RULES｜AndheregivemeleavetotakenoticeofonethingIthinkafaultintheordinarymethodofeducation;andthatis,thechargingofchildren'smemories,uponalloccasions,withrulesandprecepts,whichtheyoftendonotunderstand,andconstantlyassoonforgetasgiven.Itbesomeactionyouwouldhavedone,ordoneotherwise,whenevertheyforget,ordoitawkwardly,makethemdoitoverandoveragain,untilltheyareperfect,wherebyyouwillgetthesetwoadvant...[閱讀全文]
(2017-02-11 20:24:57)
PUNISHMENTS|Thisbeinglaiddowningeneral,asthecoursethatoughttobetaken,itisfitwenowcometoconsiderthepartsofthedisciplinetobeused,alittlemoreparticularly.Ihavespokensomuchofcarryingastricthandoverchildren,thatperhapsIshallbesuspectedofnotconsideringenough,whatisduetotheirtenderageandconstitutions.Butthatopinionwillvanish,whenyouhaveheardmealittlefarther:forIamveryapttothink,thatgreatseverityofpunishm...[閱讀全文]
(2017-02-11 19:21:05)
MIND|Duecarebeinghadtokeepthebodyinstrengthandvigour,sothatitmaybeabletoobeyandexecutetheordersofthemind;thenextandprincipalbusinessis,tosetthemindright,thatonalloccasionsitmaybedisposedtoconsenttonothingbutwhatmaybesuitabletothedignityandexcellencyofarationalcreature.
心智|恰當的照顧使身體強壯和有活力，所以它能遵從和執行心智的命令；下一個而且主要的問題是使心智保持正常，在一切情形下都能舉止合乎...[閱讀全文]
(2017-02-10 19:57:10)
Ofallthatlookssoftandeffeminate,nothingismoretobeindulgedchildren,thansleep.Inthisalonetheyaretobepermittedtohavetheirfullsatisfaction;nothingcontributingmoretothegrowthandhealthofchildren,thansleep.Allthatistoberegulatedinit,is,inwhatpartofthetwenty-fourhourstheyshouldtakeit;whichwilleasilyberesolved,byonlysayingthatitisofgreatusetoaccustomthemtoriseearlyinthemorning.Itisbestsotodo,forhealth;andh...[閱讀全文]
