隨想簿
巴金有《隨想錄》來記錄他晚年的回憶反思。我還沒到晚年，也沒有他那麽多思想。隻有一些零思碎想，就叫“隨想簿”吧。
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(2017-02-16 17:35:56)
PLAY-GAMES|Play-things,Ithink,childrenshouldhave,andofdiverssorts;butstilltobeinthecustodyoftheirtutorsorsomebodyelse,whereofthechildshouldhaveinhispowerbutoneatonce,andshouldnotbesufferedtohaveanotherbutwhenherestoredthat.Thisteachesthembetimestobecarefulofnotlosingorspoilingthethingstheyhave;whereasplentyandvarietyintheirownkeeping,makesthemwantonandcareless,andteachesthemfromthebeginningtobesqu...[閱讀全文]
(2017-02-16 17:22:41)
COMPULSION|Weformerlyobserved,thatvarietyandfreedomwasthatthatdelightedchildren,andrecommendedtheirplaystothem;andthatthereforetheirbookoranythingwewouldhavethemlearn,shouldnotbeenjoinedthemasbusiness.Thistheirparents,tutors,andteachersareapttoforget;andtheirimpatiencetohavethembusiedinwhatisfitforthemtodo,suffersthemnottodeceivethemintoit:butbytherepeatedinjunctionstheymeetwith,childrenquicklydis...[閱讀全文]
(2017-02-16 17:20:55)
PERTNESS|Pertness,thatappearssometimessoearly,proceedsfromaprinciplethatseldomaccompaniesastrongconstitutionofbody,orripensintoastrongjudgmentofmind.Ifitweredesirabletohaveachildamorebrisktalker,Ibelievetheremightbewaysfoundtomakehimso;but,Isuppose,awisefatherhadratherthathissonshouldbeableanduseful,whenaman,thanprettycompany,andadiversiontoothers,whilstachild;though,ifthattooweretobeconsidered,It...[閱讀全文]
(2017-02-16 17:18:19)
CURIOSITY|Curiosityinchildren(whichIhadoccasionjusttomention,§108)isbutanappetiteafterknowledge,andthereforeoughttobeencouragedinthem,notonlyasagoodsign,butasthegreatinstrumentnaturehasprovided,toremovethatignorancetheywerebornwith,andwhichwithoutthisbusyinquisitivenesswillmakethemdullanduselesscreatures.Thewaystoencourageit,andkeepitactiveandbusy,are,Isuppose,thesefollowing:好奇|小孩的好奇心...[閱讀全文]
(2017-02-16 17:15:11)
CRUELTY|OnethingIhavefrequentlyobservedinchildren,that,whentheyhavegotpossessionofanypoorcreature,theyareapttouseitill:theyoftentormentandtreatveryroughlyyoungbirds,butterflies,andsuchotherpooranimalswhichfallintotheirhands,andthatwithaseemingkindofpleasure.ThisIthinkshouldbewatchedinthem,andiftheyinclinetoanysuchcruelty,theyshouldbetaughtthecontraryusage.Forthecustomoftormentingandkillingofbeasts...[閱讀全文]
(2017-02-15 20:05:34)
FOOLHARDINESS|Cowardiceandcouragearesonearlyrelatedtothefore-mentionedtempers,thatitmaynotbeamissheretotakenoticeofthem.Fearisapassion,that,ifrightlygoverned,hasitsuse.Andthoughself-loveseldomfailstokeepitwatchfulandhighenoughinus,yettheremaybeanexcessonthedaringside;foolhardinessandinsensibilityofdangerbeingaslittlereasonable,astremblingandshrinkingattheapproachofeverylittleevil.Fearwasgivenusasa...[閱讀全文]
(2017-02-15 20:00:32)
CRYING|Cryingisafaultthatshouldnotbetoleratedinchildren;notonlyfortheunpleasantandunbecomingnoiseitfillsthehousewith,butformoreconsiderablereasons,inreferencetothechildrenthemselves:whichistobeouraimineducation.
哭泣|哭泣是小孩的一種不可容忍的缺點；不僅是因為滿屋的不愉快和不稱心的噪音，而且是為了與小孩自己相關的更值得考慮的緣故：也就是我們教育的目的。
Theircryingisoftwosorts;eitherstubbornan...[閱讀全文]
(2017-02-15 19:57:27)
LIBERALITY|Astohavingandpossessingofthings,teachthemtopartwithwhattheyhave,easilyandfreelytotheirfriends;andletthemfindbyexperience,thatthemostliberalhasalwaysmostplenty,withesteemandcommendationtoboot,andtheywillquicklylearntopractiseit.This,Iimagine,willmakebrothersandsisterskinderandcivillertooneanother,andconsequentlytoothers,thantwentyrulesaboutgoodmanners,withwhichchildrenareordinarilyperple...[閱讀全文]
(2017-02-15 19:54:20)
CRAVING｜1.Thatachildshouldneverbesufferedtohavewhathecraves,muchlesswhathecriesfor,Ihadsaid,orsomuchasspeaksfor.Butthatbeingapttobemisunderstood,andinterpretedasifImeantachildshouldneverspeaktohisparentsforanything,whichwillperhapsbethoughttolaytoogreatacurbonthemindsofchildren,totheprejudiceofthatloveandaffectionwhichshouldbebetweenthemandtheirparents;Ishallexplainmyselfalittlemoreparticularly.I...[閱讀全文]
(2017-02-15 17:47:51)
DOMINION|Itoldyoubefore,thatchildrenloveliberty;andthereforetheyshouldbebroughttodothethingsthatarefitforthem,withoutfeelinganyrestraintlaiduponthem.Inowtellyou,theylovesomethingmore;andthatisdominion;andthisisthefirstoriginalofmostvicioushabits,thatareordinaryandnatural.Thisloveofpoweranddominionshowsitselfveryearly,andthatinthesetwothings.
控製|我告訴過你小孩喜歡自由；因此應該讓他們做所有適合...[閱讀全文]
