“可能是老婆心”一般是上級對下級的建言，提議時使用。
下級對上級不能妄用“老婆心”，可用用“僭越”一詞。
僭越：指超越本分行事。古時指地位低下的冒用在上的名義或器物等，尤指用皇家專用的。《魏書·清河王懌傳》：“諒以天尊地卑，君臣道別，宜杜漸防萌，無相僭越。”
僭越多表示自謙〖modest〗。如：僭先（越禮先。謙詞）；僭忝（謂越分愧居上位。用為謙詞）；僭易（冒昧、輕慢。謙詞）；僭談（謙詞。所說的超越本分）。
李大釗《我的馬克思主義觀》：“我平素對於馬氏的學說沒有什麽研究，今天硬想談‘馬克思主義’已經是僭越的很。”
“老婆心”
With an old woman's heart
though it may not be necessary
give advice though it may not be necessary
out of friendship
take a friendly word of advice
solicitude; consideration; concern; (excessive) kindness
This phrase is used mainly by older persons when they give someone a piece of advice. This phrase is used so as not to sound that they are patronising or pushy.
英語”I say this out of kindness”
“It may seem a bit old-fashioned, but it’s important to follow up with new employees.”
“I realize it might come off as me being a bit overprotective, but it’s crucial to share tasks with fellow team members during a project.”
“Though it might come off as a bit old-fashioned, it’s vital to be mindful that excessive care for your subordinates can hinder their growth.”
上記“老婆心”即超過度的擔心，多用的費心。
老婆心不可対目上之人使用。
老婆心男人也可使用。忠告、提醒。
You can take or leave this old man’s advice but let me suggest you.
