Do You ever regret anything you say? or just like, I put it out there, it's out there, there's no point in regretting it.
Kanye:
I think people focus too much on the past and focus too much on regret. even like when you deal with school, like you take like the slave idea. my point is, I've heard of history class, I've never heard of a class that breaks down how you balance a checkbook or how you control your finances, which my father never taught me that. and I've never heard of a future class. So they keep us so focused on the history, that we start to believe that it actually repeats itself. and we become overly traditional, and we can't advance as a race of beings. we get too much caught up in the past and what everyone's saying and what everyone's tweeting. and sometimes you just have to be fearless enough to break the f**k simulation.
Elon Musk:
In terms of motivation, there needs to be things to get up in the morning.
life can't just be about solving problems, otherwise, what's the point?
there's got to be things that people find inspiring, things that make life worth living.
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回複 'freemanli01' 的評論 : 經提醒又仔細想了想關於“根”，好像也沒有太清晰的答案。我前麵問的“根”當時想到的更多是人性格方麵那些很難做本質性改變的部分。真誠感謝你回複我這麽多！
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感謝笑溪鼓勵。這個問題也確實是我這些年慢慢意識到的問題，多年前我有個師兄對此說的話一直對我有的深得印象，就是，個性類似佛教說的7識，基本上很少有人能改的（雖然不是不能改，但是需要機緣和決定。修道到了一定程度的人肯定能改。）。
人不改，是因為認定“那就是我，我就是這樣，我有什麽要改的”（這其實就是佛教裏的我執，是一種迷惑）。所謂江山易改秉性難移，難就難在那個自我認知的迷惑上。
要突破這種迷惑，進而改掉“假我”的弱點，是需要有人指導，並且自己修行的。
用電腦的說法，we don't have a soul, we are souls， who have a body (and have a mind, an emotion system, etc)
我們所有的這些個東西（身體、思想、情緒模式等等），其實都類似於一個高級電腦。能不能改，原則上是能改的，就是給這個電腦從新編程。這就換了一個人。人這個電腦是最高級的造化，它的可塑性，可編程性，是很高級的，是可以編程改變的。
但是難點就在大部分人無法把舊程序-習慣-抹掉。就變成了不能改。原因就因為佛教說的“癡”（貪嗔癡的癡），因為人們已經癡迷地認定了那個“舊程序所反映的習慣就是我”。
如果不能破除這個identification, 基本上就不會改了。
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這也是我的功課。謝謝。
哇，wuliwa來了。
你說的落地生根，是指到一個地方就生根？我也佩服，這個感覺第一次是介乎這裏的網友林貝卡，我佩服她很平靜的就生了根了，就像漫野地裏的花，到了北美，就高高興興地開了花，開始生活、曬太陽了。或者類似原來黑人所謂的尋根，中國的落葉歸根等等。
你說的無限，可能就是我說的無根。類似禪宗裏的無依無靠的，I am nothing, and I am everything.
實際上人害怕無限，正是輪回的原因。所謂有限，就是把自己本來無限的本質，投射（Identify)到某個具體的形象上。無限就是停止這種投射。不投射，我覺得就是解脫，但是這投射的慣性極端強大而隱蔽，如影隨形，24小時不停。這個投射機製是什麽，過程？恐懼本身，就是幻覺慣性對人的束縛。三界限製，層層疊疊，正是隻有解脫者（在世佛、明師）才能教的。
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禪宗說的無依道人，我想就是無限的生活了。
Do You ever regret anything you say? or just like, I put it out there, it's out there, there's no point in regretting it.
Kanye:
I think people focus too much on the past and focus too much on regret. even like when you deal with school, like you take like the slave idea. my point is, I've heard of history class, I've never heard of a class that breaks down how you balance a checkbook or how you control your finances, which my father never taught me that. and I've never heard of a future class. So they keep us so focused on the history, that we start to believe that it actually repeats itself. and we become overly traditional, and we can't advance as a race of beings. we get too much caught up in the past and what everyone's saying and what everyone's tweeting. and sometimes you just have to be fearless enough to break the f**k simulation.
Elon Musk:
In terms of motivation, there needs to be things to get up in the morning.
life can't just be about solving problems, otherwise, what's the point?
there's got to be things that people find inspiring, things that make life worth living.
