年長的網友請多發帖表達意見和建議,對人對己都有好處

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最近的研究表明60多歲的朋友給各類人提供意見會使自己的生活更為充實和有意義。
 
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People in Their 60s Uniquely Benefit From Giving Advice Despite Fewer Chances to Offer It

Released: 8-Mar-2016 8:05 AM EST
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Citations Social Psychology Quarterly, March-2016

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People in Their 60s Uniquely Benefit From Giving Advice Despite Fewer Chances to Offer it

Newswise — WASHINGTON, DC, March 8, 2016 — A new study reveals that individuals in their 60s who give advice to a broad range of people tend to see their lives as especially meaningful. At the same time, this happens to be the age when opportunities for dispensing advice become increasingly scarce.

According to the study, which appears in the March issue of Social Psychology Quarterly, individuals in their 60s who report giving advice to a wide variety of people—to family members, friends, neighbors, and strangers—see their lives as highly meaningful, while adults in that age group who dispense advice to fewer types of people are much less likely to report high life meaning.

“This association between advice giving and life meaning is not evident for other age groups,” said Markus H. Schafer, an assistant professor of sociology at the University of Toronto and the lead author of the study. “Overall, we interpret these findings to suggest that the developmental demands of late midlife—particularly the desire to contribute to others’ welfare and the fear of feeling ‘stagnant’—fit poorly with the social and demographic realties for this segment of the life course. Just when giving advice seems to be most important, opportunities for doing so seem to wane.”

Titled, “The Age-Graded Nature of Advice: Distributional Patterns and Implications for Life Meaning,” the study relies on a nationally representative sample of 2,583 U.S. adults who were 18 and above when they were surveyed in 2006.

Schafer and his co-author Laura Upenieks, a doctoral candidate in sociology at the University of Toronto, found that 21 percent of people in their 60s and 27 percent of people 70 or older reported giving advice to no one in the previous year. By comparison, only about 10 percent of people in their 20s (this group also included 18 and 19-year-olds), 30s, 40s, and 50s said they gave no advice in the past year.

“Conventional age norms suggest that the ideal mentor or advice-giver is someone who has a lot of life experience,” Schafer said. “However, compared to their younger counterparts, older adults occupy fewer social roles, are less socially active, and interact with a more restricted range of people. So, while the average 65-year-old may well have more wisdom than the average 30-year-old, demographic and social structure factors seem to provide the latter with more opportunity for actually dispensing advice.”

Some scholars have argued that the essence of mattering—the idea that one is meaningful and consequential to other people—is most under threat during late-middle age when many people retire and enter the “empty nest” phase of life, according to Schafer.

“The mattering perspective helps explain why it is this period of the life span, in particular, when it is important for people to feel like they can still have influence on others through actions such as giving advice,” Schafer said.

In terms of the study’s implications, Schafer said, “The results should prompt reflection on the social fabric of American communities and how late-middle age adults fit into the picture. Our findings underscore the importance of giving older adults occasions to share their wisdom and life experiences. Schools, churches, civic organizations, and other community groups could consider how to facilitate intergenerational mentorship experiences and to creatively enable more older adults to be advice-givers.”

 

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是不是說男人嘮叨也行? -pichawxc- 給 pichawxc 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2016 postreply 13:49:38

應該是吧,沒有分男女。。。 -吃與活- 給 吃與活 發送悄悄話 吃與活 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2016 postreply 13:52:08

那就建議一下 -claude888- 給 claude888 發送悄悄話 (146 bytes) () 03/08/2016 postreply 13:58:20

謝謝!如果把你鍛煉的方法和收獲寫出來給網友參考,豈不更好? -吃與活- 給 吃與活 發送悄悄話 吃與活 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2016 postreply 14:04:59

我每天踩Elliptical 30-35分鍾。每五分鍾難度加一等。單單的有氧運動不行。 -claude888- 給 claude888 發送悄悄話 (122 bytes) () 03/08/2016 postreply 14:10:02

可以根據此經驗來鍛煉,但不知堅持下去身體有何改善? -吃與活- 給 吃與活 發送悄悄話 吃與活 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2016 postreply 14:15:27

體重減輕,神清氣爽,精力大有提高 -claude888- 給 claude888 發送悄悄話 (307 bytes) () 03/08/2016 postreply 15:52:54

太好了,值得效仿 -吃與活- 給 吃與活 發送悄悄話 吃與活 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2016 postreply 16:37:53

這樣關節會酸痛嗎?謝謝。 -swj2000- 給 swj2000 發送悄悄話 swj2000 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2016 postreply 20:12:05

不痛,經常運動關節反而靈活。 -claude888- 給 claude888 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 03/09/2016 postreply 13:47:34

不是指在這個論壇上,基本上在日常生活中,老年人給出unsolicited建議,都是不太受歡迎的。除了需要幫助誠心請教的。 -閑情- 給 閑情 發送悄悄話 閑情 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2016 postreply 14:12:14

嗯,現在60歲是中年人,在國家領導人中還是年輕人呢 -吃與活- 給 吃與活 發送悄悄話 吃與活 的博客首頁 (56 bytes) () 03/08/2016 postreply 14:18:51

可能對著他們的視頻進行指導和建議也是有用的。。可能效果比對一般人建議還會更好。 -pichawxc- 給 pichawxc 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2016 postreply 14:27:01

實際上是他們在發表意見,沒關係,對他們身體有好處就好。 -吃與活- 給 吃與活 發送悄悄話 吃與活 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2016 postreply 16:39:13

一個85歲老太太收到我送的智能手機後學習速度驚人 -dudaan- 給 dudaan 發送悄悄話 dudaan 的博客首頁 (185 bytes) () 03/08/2016 postreply 18:46:56

年齡不是衡量衰老與否的絕對標準。老太太的頭腦也許六十歲還不到。 -吃與活- 給 吃與活 發送悄悄話 吃與活 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2016 postreply 18:53:25

她三年前大病一場,幾乎不行了,真沒想到。 -dudaan- 給 dudaan 發送悄悄話 dudaan 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2016 postreply 18:56:32

ted 上有個教育學家做過實驗,把電腦放在一個幾乎是與世隔絕的村莊,裏麵的人不懂英文,結果小孩子不僅自學學會了用電腦,還學會了英 -pamperedpaws- 給 pamperedpaws 發送悄悄話 pamperedpaws 的博客首頁 (50 bytes) () 03/09/2016 postreply 17:28:20

嗯,但建議不要到健壇發貼,否則打幾次架高血壓發作還是木外算 -Manymore- 給 Manymore 發送悄悄話 Manymore 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/09/2016 postreply 08:57:20

不會的,長者激素水平都下降了,脾氣好,不會吵架的 -吃與活- 給 吃與活 發送悄悄話 吃與活 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 03/09/2016 postreply 10:14:00

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