Why do I not like to work with Chinese?

來源: Guendawen 於 2010-06-04 10:04:28 [] [舊帖] [給我悄悄話] 閱讀數 : (1658 bytes)

Yes, the title sounds very offensive to some people, I'm sure. But this is my true feeling these days.

I have noticed my working situation gradually changing when more Chinese join our group. The first difference is Chinese are hard-workers that willing to put in extra hours without pay constantly. When I'm the only one doing it in the team, the boss is impressed. But when there are so many Chinese colleagues around doing the same thing, well, the game starts changing. Boss starts to expect it as a normal behavior from Chinese. And suddenly, if I do not want to work long hours, I look like a lazy person. (I have to blame myself on this one too :(

The second difference is Chinese are well-known for obedient. We are so eager to please that tend to follow whatever stupid ideas our boss might have and never challenge them. Again, once this becomes a pattern in a Chinese dominant team, anyone who dares to raise a different voice will become an eyesore. Not a fun situation to be for any serious engineer.

The 3rd difference is Chinese male always look down on their female colleague, and do everything in their power to be-little or bad-mouth others work, so to present themselves smarter. Maybe this backstabbing technique is not limited to female colleague, but I'm sure it is only applied to fellow Chinese, never to Americans.

I don't want to list 4th, 5th ....

Just want to say, as a Chinese female, I really do not enjoy my working experience with Chinese male. This is a sad truth.

Sorry to vent my frustration here. Maybe someday I can meet some decent Chinese during work to change my opinion.

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• Agree! keep certain distance or start to look for -mylittlehome- ♀ 給 mylittlehome 發送悄悄話 mylittlehome 的博客首頁 (177 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 10:13:38

• Thanks. -Guendawen- ♀ 給 Guendawen 發送悄悄話 (147 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 10:23:22

• ? -herwife- ♂ 給 herwife 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:18:43

• 哥！你該休息了。 -眼冒金星- ♂ 給 眼冒金星 發送悄悄話 眼冒金星 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 10:30:46

• 詐和呀，你好象是綠的，為什麽這麽跳跳地裝藍的 ? :-) -Guendawen- ♀ 給 Guendawen 發送悄悄話 (28 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 10:40:49

• 很sad的一件事呀， -Guendawen- ♀ 給 Guendawen 發送悄悄話 (68 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 10:48:24

• 覺得兩個中國人那麽掐太難看了，好女不和男鬥 ... -Guendawen- ♀ 給 Guendawen 發送悄悄話 (14 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 10:57:59

• 根源和中國人在中國餐館受的待遇是一樣的吧 -Guendawen- ♀ 給 Guendawen 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:03:46

• Haha:) -灰衣人- ♂ 給 灰衣人 發送悄悄話 灰衣人 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 10:52:40

• Emn, does the gender really matter? hope you don't wear -灰衣人- ♂ 給 灰衣人 發送悄悄話 灰衣人 的博客首頁 (20 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 10:57:12

• Well, it's hard to say -Guendawen- ♀ 給 Guendawen 發送悄悄話 (192 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:01:41

• 抱怨是不對的，不過俺竟然很有共鳴，尤其3rd one。 -驢驢- ♀ 給 驢驢 發送悄悄話 (342 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:01:07

• "出來混得彪悍。" good point:) -灰衣人- ♂ 給 灰衣人 發送悄悄話 灰衣人 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:02:53

• 婦女們不容易啊！偶爾有個害群之馬，組織大家聊小蜜，還天天說。 (圖) -驢驢- ♀ 給 驢驢 發送悄悄話 (308 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:13:06

• 補圖 -驢驢- ♀ 給 驢驢 發送悄悄話 (137 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:13:58

• 回複：補圖 (圖) -驢驢- ♀ 給 驢驢 發送悄悄話 (172 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:14:21

• "出來混得彪悍。" good point:) -灰衣人- ♂ 給 灰衣人 發送悄悄話 灰衣人 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:04:17

• 詐老和，你這就不懂了。不來個2遍，不能表達老灰同學激動的心情。 -veggiedoggie- ♀ 給 veggiedoggie 發送悄悄話 veggiedoggie 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:13:37

• 詐老和，周末換上你的紅襪子高跟鞋，代領大家表演個丟手絹啥的唄。 -veggiedoggie- ♀ 給 veggiedoggie 發送悄悄話 veggiedoggie 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:24:19

• 咳，忘了說了，因為老板也換成亞洲來的了， -Guendawen- ♀ 給 Guendawen 發送悄悄話 (7 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:16:22

• 忍字頭上一把刀，妹妹不成咱就挪挪。 -驢驢- ♀ 給 驢驢 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:49:05

• 回複：Why do I not like to work with Chinese? -豬不才- ♀ 給 豬不才 發送悄悄話 (1896 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:07:00

• 再得瑟著問一個：姐姐，這是不是傳說中的周末普天同慶貼呀？hiahia -豬不才- ♀ 給 豬不才 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:11:43

• I know. -Guendawen- ♀ 給 Guendawen 發送悄悄話 (233 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:13:17

• Haha, I like 瞎搞瞎搞搞 contigo:) -灰衣人- ♂ 給 灰衣人 發送悄悄話 灰衣人 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:17:24

• 嚴肅點，嚴肅點，姐姐們談正經事呢！沒事兒你先幫著BP堵會兒漏油吧~~ -豬不才- ♀ 給 豬不才 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:22:16

• Well said -直線也救國- ♂ 給 直線也救國 發送悄悄話 (57 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 12:43:08

• 我work overtime都是忙自己的事。 -小謀- ♀ 給 小謀 發送悄悄話 小謀 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 17:02:00

• Great point -Renminbi_9- ♂ 給 Renminbi_9 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 22:14:41

• fair enough -zbj8888- ♂ 給 zbj8888 發送悄悄話 (679 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:15:35

• Thanks for the kind word. -Guendawen- ♀ 給 Guendawen 發送悄悄話 (87 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:24:22

• I only worked with one chinese male colleague B4 -直線也救國- ♂ 給 直線也救國 發送悄悄話 (447 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:57:13

• 回複：I only worked with one chinese male colleague B4 -Guendawen- ♀ 給 Guendawen 發送悄悄話 (297 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 12:20:14

• Your boss will never say that he expect you to stay late, or -直線也救國- ♂ 給 直線也救國 發送悄悄話 (338 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 12:34:32

• 回複：Your boss will never say that he expect you to stay late, or -Guendawen- ♀ 給 Guendawen 發送悄悄話 (136 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:18:51

• 有體會，以前俺比較愣跟人比tough，發現事倍功半。現在俺越來越會買長處了。 -驢驢- ♀ 給 驢驢 發送悄悄話 (342 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:22:16

• I am a female and totally agree with 3rd one. -samom- ♀ 給 samom 發送悄悄話 (244 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 12:32:46

• Good thing is that I am really彪悍. So I enojoy seeing them acting -SAMOM- ♀ 給 SAMOM 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 12:36:34

• hahaha...certainly can't go back to China -cAthy_Bay- ♀ 給 cAthy_Bay 發送悄悄話 cAthy_Bay 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:10:58

• 特同意，回去俺肯定歇菜。 -驢驢- ♀ 給 驢驢 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:33:25

• 為啥？ -小謀- ♀ 給 小謀 發送悄悄話 小謀 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:39:45

• 回複：為啥？ -驢驢- ♀ 給 驢驢 發送悄悄話 (124 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:44:52

• 有道理。 -小謀- ♀ 給 小謀 發送悄悄話 小謀 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:55:20

• 沒共鳴。我挺喜歡和國人同事的，特別是國男同事。 -小謀- ♀ 給 小謀 發送悄悄話 小謀 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:28:56

• that's because you are beautful and sexy. -help13- ♂ 給 help13 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:32:16

• 俺確實不beatiful也不sexy，但俺覺得小謀主要因為行業差異。 -驢驢- ♀ 給 驢驢 發送悄悄話 (110 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:37:14

• 我是自己認為自己是又beatiful也sexy，別人怎麽看我無所謂。 -小謀- ♀ 給 小謀 發送悄悄話 小謀 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:43:49

• 小謀妹子，你驢子阿姨一貫風格就是埋汰自己，俺自己都不當真你也別當真啊。 -驢驢- ♀ 給 驢驢 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:46:57

• 我就一毛病，特當真。你說啥我信啥。 -小謀- ♀ 給 小謀 發送悄悄話 小謀 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:49:14

• 多好的閨女啊，模樣俊，還心眼實誠 ^__^ -驢驢- ♀ 給 驢驢 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:54:52

• 你看過她PP？ -:-}- ♀ 給 :-} 發送悄悄話 :-} 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 16:47:25

• 理解你. 很多中國人最恨中國人 -kwH4E3GW- ♀ 給 kwH4E3GW 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 14:55:42

• 是不是我沒跟國人一起工作過？ -豬胖子- ♀ 給 豬胖子 發送悄悄話 豬胖子 的博客首頁 (69 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 16:03:53

• I don't agree -renminbi_9- ♂ 給 renminbi_9 發送悄悄話 (2431 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 22:13:12

• 回複：I don't agree -弱鳥- ♀ 給 弱鳥 發送悄悄話 (354 bytes) () 06/05/2010 postreply 09:59:58

• I still don't agree -Renminbi_9- ♂ 給 Renminbi_9 發送悄悄話 (619 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 22:23:01

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