Please help me...Thxxxxxx

Hello All,

I was laid-off months ago. I have two kids and my wife does not work. My greencard is pending and we also have a mortgage payment each month. I did several interviews, but did not get any offer yet. Currently, I am waitig for the final decision on my last interview. Obviously, I am not the best candidate, but my recruiter told me that the company might give me another interview.I emailed (twice) the senior who interviewed me, he replied me every time. He is a Chinese and very nice. My interview should be very smooth. But the test score before the interview was not ideal, I think. I did not have any others to be hoped for. Under this situation, could I tell the senior my current difficulties to ask for a sympathy? Could anybody here kindly offer your talent to help me? Thank you very much for your time and help.

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• Do not play the sympathy card at work. -Rubikscube- ♀ (531 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 09:35:50

• Thanks for your input! -L4job- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 10:06:18

• 回複：Please help me...Thxxxxxx -kaolin007- ♂ (767 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 09:40:35

• Thanks for your good idea! -L4job- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 10:08:16

• 回複：回複：Please help me...Thxxxxxx -Lee09- ♂ (106 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 14:33:18

• 回複：回複：回複：Please help me...Thxxxxxx -kaolin007- ♂ (79 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 15:49:16

• My recruiter's email -L4job- ♂ (97 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 19:51:51

• Just express how hard you are willing to sacratice for your fami -interested1- ♀ (18 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 21:31:48

• But the senior is a Chinese, another interviewer is -L4job- ♂ (35 bytes) () 02/28/2009 postreply 06:19:37

• You will get the job! -jill08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 10:25:17

• Thanks for your sympathy card! -L4job- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 10:39:36

• 我沒看出ur personal hardship will be 用人單位的interest. -小謀- ♀ (27 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 11:05:51

• Thanks, just to beg the job. Actually -L4job- ♂ (193 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 16:13:16

• Johnny, I value this opportunity more than any other candidate -美國老土- ♂ (531 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 11:10:39

• Thanks, LaoTu! But others may not agree with you... -L4job- ♂ (142 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 16:08:12

• you may make the hiring manager feel uncomfortable if you do thi -dropinto- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 16:10:41

• 美國老土的這個建議可不怎麽樣，別用 -dropinto- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 16:09:01

• Thanks! -L4job- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 16:14:29

• it won't work,indeed,they might think that you're begging -喜氣連年- ♂ (92 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 11:34:01

• Thanks! Do you mean LaoTu's idea won't work? -L4job- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 16:04:57

• Let's get it straight,you qualified,they give you a job,who -喜氣連年- ♂ (244 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 17:32:56

• Very encouraging! I like the last sentence. Thanks! -L4job- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 17:38:37

• Never beg for a job. It won't work -amei50- ♀ (411 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 12:27:55

• Thanks, but if -L4job- ♂ (107 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 16:03:43

• I think it's a high-risk approach. -jill08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 19:27:58

• Do you mean there is a high risk of turning me down? Thx! -L4job- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 19:48:45

• Don't think sympathy will get you a job! -jill08- ♀ (85 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 20:57:30

• then, why some companies always put best business value -hoard-stocks- ♂ (73 bytes) () 02/28/2009 postreply 20:46:44

• I hope you didnt do anything stupid like that, it will pull you -dominic- ♂ (175 bytes) () 02/27/2009 postreply 21:57:20

• I didn't do anything like that yet, just thinking. -L4job- ♂ (136 bytes) () 02/28/2009 postreply 06:26:51

• The same to everyone. Be strong! -jill08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/28/2009 postreply 09:54:54

• Thanks for your encouragement!!! -L4job- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/28/2009 postreply 09:56:27

• Just express that you are very interested in the job -Legend2008- ♀ (735 bytes) () 02/28/2009 postreply 19:57:37

• Thanks for your kind input! -L4job- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/28/2009 postreply 21:11:11

• Be strong, dude! Let us be strong in this turmoil! Thanks for sh -老婆叫我土皇帝- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/02/2009 postreply 19:29:52