Love
我15歲的女兒曾經跟我說:“媽媽，我覺得外麵沒有適合我的男孩。”
“相信真愛嗎?”我問，想起她九歲時曾用整整一頁的篇幅描述她未來的伴侶。
“信！”
“太好了。為什麽?”
“因為你和爸爸。但你們倆很特別。沒有人能像你們這樣。”
“嗯。如果我們可以，你不認為其他人也可以嗎?”
“可能吧。”
我笑了笑。“當你正在成長的時候，有一個靈魂就在那裏準備接納你，就像你準備接納他們一樣。”
“就像靈魂伴侶?那是什麽感覺？”
“他就像是我生命中的太陽和星星，而我是他生命中的月亮。我們在一起就是整個宇宙。”聽到我提到《權力的遊戲》，我們都笑了。“你的靈魂伴侶會無條件地愛你。他的出現會讓你有賓至如歸的感覺，你們都是雙生火焰的一部分。但要想吸引他，你首先得相信他的存在。”
和靈魂伴侶在一起30年，感覺如何?
一種篤定的感覺。
靈魂伴侶是我一生中最好的朋友，他永遠不會離開我，他接納真實的我——即使是我不願承認的並不美好的一麵。
靈魂伴侶是一種完全的愛與連接的感覺。透過靈魂的接觸，我們永遠結合在一起——我們是一體——為了更大的利益。
靈魂伴侶是在寒冷冬天裏包裹我的柔軟溫暖的毯子。
靈魂伴侶是世界上幫助我改善生活遊戲的頂級棋手。
靈魂伴侶是最好的玩伴，把我內在的頑皮小孩釋放出來。
靈魂伴侶是彼此的守護者， 靈魂伴侶是彼此的啦啦隊，靈魂伴侶是彼此的電源， 靈魂伴侶是平等的。
你的靈魂伴侶將永遠與你一起成長，因為他們是你靈魂的一部分。他們總在提升你，看見你最好的一麵，愛你並培養你，就像你是他們的一部分一樣。
人都會犯錯，作為靈魂伴侶，永遠不要責怪他們。你為你的靈魂伴侶展現最好的自己。
沒有靈魂伴侶，一個人能幸福嗎?
會，因為每個人生來都是完整的，但當你有靈魂伴侶在身邊時，就像你在人生旅途上有了最好的旅行夥伴。你們倆輪流開車，一起設計行程。
生命是用來分享的， 人類的情感是用來分享的。有了靈魂伴侶，就會有更多的深度、強度、快樂、自由，情感更加豐富。
真誠地希望每個人都相信有一個靈魂伴侶為他們而生。相信你們會以一種隻有你們兩個才能一起經曆的最獨特的方式相遇並成就彼此，這需要信念。有了靈魂伴侶，生活就會擁有加倍的快樂和強度。
當我說Samuel造就了今天的我時，我不是在開玩笑。當我第一次見到我的男人時，我還是個年輕女孩，一個 20 歲的大學生，對生活充滿夢想。在過去的 30 年裏，我每天都在實現自己的夢想。我感謝神給了我這個人。
我的靈魂伴侶是一位安靜的紳士。他的男子氣概並不是在大聲喊叫中表現出來的，而是一種堅實、踏實、佛係的禪道。他一直讓我著迷。他一直在鍛煉身體，他鍛煉胸肌就像他栽培園藝一樣，賞心悅目，滋養心靈。
每天醒來，我把臉貼在他的胸膛上，聽著他的心跳，感受著我與他的心之間深深且溫暖的聯接。
沒有什麽是永恒的，隻有我們的靈魂是永恒的。靈魂伴侶就是靈魂的陪伴。
我是你的伴侶，你是我的。我們在一起最好的生活還沒有到來。
傳遞給大家滿滿的愛
My 15 year old once said, “Mom, I don’t think there’s a guy out there for me.”
“Do you believe in true love?” I asked, remembering she once gave a full page description of her future partner at the age of nine.
“Yes.”
“Great. Why?”
“Because of you and Daddy. But you two are special. There’s no one else like you guys.”
“Ok. But if we exist, don’t you think others can exist too?”
“I guess.”
I smiled. “While you are growing now, there is a soul out there preparing to receive you just as you are preparing to receive them.”
“So like soulmates? What’s that like?”
“Like he’s the sun and stars of my life and I’m the moon of his life. Together we are each other’s universe.” We both grinned at my Game of Thrones reference. “Your soulmate will love you unconditionally. His presence will make you feel at home, you both are a part of twin flames. But in order to attract him, you have to believe his existence first.”
Samuel is my soulmate. Today, we are celebrating our 30th anniversary.
How do I feel about being with my soulmate for thirty years?
It is a feeling of certainty.
Having a soulmate is my best friend of life who will never leave me, who accepts me as I am — even the not too pretty side of me that I don’t want to admit is there.
Having a soulmate is a total feeling of love and connectedness. Through a soul contact, we are forever binded together as one — we are one — for the greater good.
Having a soulmate is a soft warm blanket on cold winter days wrapped around me.
Having a soulmate is the top chess players in the world helping me improve the game of life.
Having a soulmate is the best entertainer bringing the playful inner child out of me.
Soulmates are space holders for each other. Soulmates are cheerleaders for each other. Soulmates are each other's battery power. Soulmates are equals to each other.
Your soulmate will always grow with you because they are a part of your soul. They always lift you up, see the best in you, love you and nurture you like you are part of them.
People make mistakes, but as soulmates, you never hold them at fault. You want to bring the best of you out for your soulmate.
Can a person be happy without their soulmate?
Yes. Everyone is born whole on our own, but when you have your soulmate by your side, it’s like you have the best traveling buddy on the journey of life. You both take turns driving the car. You both design the routine for the journey.
Life is meant to be shared. Human emotions are meant to be shared. With a soulmate comes more depth, intensity, joy, total let go; another layer of richness in emotion.
It is my sincere wish everyone believes there is a soulmate born for them. It takes faith to believe you will meet and magnify each other in a most unique way that only you two will experience together. Life is double the joy and intensity when you have a soulmate.
I am not kidding when I say Samuel made me who I am today. I was a young woman when I first met my man, a 20 year old college student, full of dreams for my life. Now for the past 30 years, I have been living my dream everyday. I thank Divine for giving me this man.
My soulmate is a masculine guy in a quiet way. His macho does not show up in a loud shouts, but instead in a solid, grounded, buddha-like Zen way. He continues to fascinate me. He has been building up physically, now he has grown his chest muscles like how he grows our flower garden! Pleasing to the eyes, nourishing to the soul.
Everyday I wake up and lay my cheek on his chest, listen to his heart beat and feel the deep warm connection from my heart to his.
Nothing is permanent, only our souls are permanent. Soulmates are mates for the souls.
I am your mate and you are mine. Our best life together has yet to come.
美麗的人生，深刻的感悟，謝謝分享。