我已等你一千年

一年前，文學城中一片聲的討伐油膩。我賭氣不作中年人了，決意向老年進發，並立下十條規則，提醒自己莫要在逃離中年的路途中迷失了方向。

狂奔了一年，回頭看看。還行，十項要求基本都有進步。隻是忘了“從容”兩字。人家為真愛可以等上一千年，那麽，愛自己為什麽不能多給自己一些時間，充許自己在中年階段多停留一會兒？

博友梅子姐說，要想健康，從容而老，必須具有豁達而開朗舍得放棄的平常心態。優雅智慧的梅姐好久沒來溜彎了，願她安好。

去年的博文： 重溫十項，繼續努力。

1) 要愛吃。吃的東西多樣化，但少吃。嚐試不同風味的食品。

2) 要愛玩。鍛煉身體，找自己喜歡的，不碰那些苦哈哈的項目。春夏秋冬，多在大自然裏活動。

3) 要愛美。買衣服和化妝品選新的色彩式樣。衣櫃裏舊衣服重新排列組合穿出不同的風格。

4) 要愛財。積極地工作或投資，不斷更新的專業技能和相關知識。

5) 要找新娛樂。種花種菜做美食寫文章，玩得好不好不重要，喜歡就行。

6) 要和年輕人交往。尊重小朋友，學習年輕人處世的方式。

7) 要和自己和平相處。少苟求，多包容。坦然承認喜怒哀樂都是對生活的熱情。

8) 要尋未知。不懂不可怕，不敢提問就會逐漸喪失了好奇心。

9) 要愛折騰。想到就做，錯了改正，失敗了重來。認真去做，成敗由天。在折騰中增長閱曆。

10) 要喜新。舊的要珍惜，但沒有新鮮感，生活少了樂趣。新朋友，新書新電影，新科技，新的挑戰，新的一天一時一刻。。。

不求十全十美，但求進步。從容，從容，再從容。

 

The day we met,
Frozen I held my breath
Right from the start
I knew that I'd found a home for my heart
Beats fast
Colors and promises
How to be brave?
How can I love when I'm afraid to fall
But watching you stand alone?
All of my doubt suddenly goes away somehow

One step closer
I have died everyday waiting for you
Darling don't be afraid I have loved you
For a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

Time stands still
Beauty in all she is
I will be brave
I will not let anything take away
What's standing in front of me
Every breath
Every hour has come to this

One step closer
I have died everyday waiting for you
Darling don't be afraid I have loved you
For a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

And all along I believed I would find you
Time has brought your heart to me
I have loved you for a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

I'll love you for a thousand more
Ohh

One step closer
I have died everyday waiting for you
Darling don't be afraid I have loved you
For a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

And all along I believed I would find you
Time has brought your heart to me
I have loved you for a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

Songwriters: David Hodges / Christina Perri