回複十年退休的評論:
For the GC, there are many ways to get it. Especially Zheng can give her that and Jing may get it herself, too, since she already had a job. You have to believe Jing really loves Jim above anything else. Jing may not have really loved before and Zheng was too young to understand. If this is really like you said Jim is 20 years older than Jing, that is tragedy for just getting a GC...
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回複imtheman的評論:
This is what we think at this moment. At that time, a GC might be worth all the sacrifice.
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回複wxcwxc2010的評論:
But Jing signed 婚前協議, she is not safe at all, not a good deal.鄧文迪 married a billionaire, 楊帆 found a nobel laureate.
But I agree things happen. But doesn't mean Zheng turns out a winner in the end? He is younger and he can even find a younger wife...
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回複imtheman的評論:
To be honest with you (as this is Internet, nobody knows who i am), a lot of my father's students tried to seduce him. He was involved with several of them, and they were younger and younger, at least 20 years difference.
回複十年退休的評論:
To make sense of this, Jim has to be younger, such as in his mid-40s or less. 10-15 years difference probably ok. More than that is like father and daughter.
Yale University Ph.D., Biophysical Chemistry
1995 – 2001
Peking University M.S., Physical Chemistry
1992 – 1995
Peking University B.A., Chemistry
1988 – 1992
他畢業前後,IT已經有些不行了,泡沫破了。不是他剛來的時候。
靜97年左右和BUTTMAN搞上了,BUTTMAN已經50多了,但美國人不是很顯老
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回複於小芷的評論:
You are right. They are likely the victims of this wild man hunt. At first, feel upset that Jiang left Zheng. But in fact, if Zheng really got over it and became successful, Jing may be the bigger loser of the two. Jing will have a lot to accomplish to justify her decision, new social circle, culture difference, etc.; but Zheng is becoming another Jim, but younger.
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回複於小芷的評論:
從學齡上看,Huiming Li 不是政委,Li 95年畢業P大和來美的。從海大以前的回帖上看,政委應該是IT泡泡破的前後來美的。我記得有人說政委應該轉專業,海大說沒地方轉,IT泡泡已經破了。
回複於小芷的評論:
This is insane. The yale professor is 69 now. If Jing married him 10 years ago, he still would be 59. Does not add up. BTW, is the professor still married?
If Zheng really lost Jing this way, he will be better off finding a new wife, either Juan or someone better than Jing. Is that difficult?