it is an excuse to protect yourself

after listening to your speech, they will come up with their own conclusions based on your story and theri own exprience. their conclusion can be very different from yours.

 

by stating your position, you cover your butt and let poeple know "I are aware of what I am talking about".

 

if somone I don't know behave like this,

first, I would think he has a bad day(had fight with his wife in the morning, critized by his father, lost some money), he is not himself today.

 

 

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• now i am confused that I am not sure if you undersood what I j -sportwoman- ♀ (379 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 11:21:28

• sorry to interfere your thoughts. -tingfeng- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 11:36:48

• oh, no need to say sorry, but there is a need for me to -sportwoman- ♀ (149 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 11:49:02

• be proactive -tingfeng- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 11:56:53

• I seldom do speech on negative stuff. -sportwoman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 11:58:45

• i dont need to protect myself, because they have no chance to as -sportwoman- ♀ (388 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 11:43:49

• in the purpose of impressing others, you are absolutely right. -tingfeng- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 11:48:21

• thank you! -sportwoman- ♀ (51 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 11:53:07

• I am observing as well, sunny! -tingfeng- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 11:56:25

• Actually we both are being observed, These days -sportwoman- ♀ (342 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 12:14:22

• haha...we are. What to share, I have no idea... hints? -tingfeng- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 12:19:26

• you are an attractive girl, I am all ears for your stories. -tingfeng- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 12:22:53

• i hope so but they said my figure looks -sportwoman- ♀ (61 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 12:33:18

• well, 穿越到唐朝吧! -tingfeng- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 12:42:43

• still people believe inner beauty is important. -tingfeng- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 12:44:07

• Very nice to chat with you professor Windy! -sportwoman- ♀ (85 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 12:53:17

• I've learned a lot as well, bye, Sunny. -tingfeng- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 13:09:52