快樂的假期結束了。回來的第一件事就是盡快作個決定是move on還是stay

which challenge wouold you take

turn a bad situation around or start fresh, but with a potentially difficult manager

background:

an offer from a relatively stable large dept. new area, familiar work, new org.many new things to learn. manager may be tough to work with. He does not appear to be one of those who would watch out for employees, after my negotiation with him for a higher title.

current position: terrible relationship with sr. management due to numerous reasons and some history with individuals. comfortable with current manager.  potentially a promotion though not fully communicated yet. will lose the promo if accept offer.group is small, unstable but with high profile.

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• very hard to make move, very hard to stay -世界無童話- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 15:25:54

• 中國有句古話，去也兮兮，留也兮兮 -世界無童話- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 15:30:51

• yeah. it is a tough decision. -Cathy_Bay- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 17:25:47

• what would you do? -Cathy_Bay- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 17:33:33

• Very hard -世界無童話- ♀ (104 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 18:36:26

• add one more thing to consider -Cathy_Bay- ♀ (431 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 20:44:16

• 俺咋覺得這麽沒學文,從沒聽過這句古話，去也兮兮，留也兮兮. -美國老土- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 20:24:07

• 我看完，雲也兮兮，霧也兮兮，稀裏糊塗 -胡說之- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 20:36:23

• 如果古人在神經兮兮的狀態下有可能可憐兮兮地發出此感歎。（瘋人院留言） -眼冒金星- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 23:37:20

• 可有放之四海而皆準的真理給建議一哈？ -Cathy_Bay- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 20:47:04

• 既來之則安之，別想得太多 -我邊走邊問- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 21:20:35

• 土哥，您哪是瓊瑤小說看得沒人老胡多。人正解是：聚也兮兮，散也依依。。。 -veggiedoggie- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/28/2010 postreply 10:24:41

• 古人的出處是項羽曾在《垓下歌》這樣寫，又有“聚兮離兮奈若何,不如歸去” -眼冒金星- ♂ (125 bytes) () 12/28/2010 postreply 10:57:46

• 人家是“聚兮離兮奈若何,不如裸奔” -大寫2- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/28/2010 postreply 11:02:44

• 俺move on了，難免壓力大一陣子，但俺打心裏高興啊。 -驢驢- ♀ (430 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 19:31:34

• Thanks. Happy New Year!! -Cathy_Bay- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2010 postreply 20:23:50

• 俺覺得找個能得到最管事的人青睞的位置很重要，其他的過去以後都可忽略。。。 -喜歡春天的嫩綠- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/28/2010 postreply 03:18:39

• very good point thank you! -Cathy_Bay- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/28/2010 postreply 04:12:51