請教各位大俠：該不該放棄這份工，如果放棄該怎樣處理

來源: norfil 於 2009-11-23 16:10:44 [] [舊帖] [給我悄悄話] 閱讀數 : (1755 bytes)

I started my current job six months ago. I like the job because of good salary and good location. However, I have the worst boss in this world: She did not provide detailed training,no previews files available either. She never supply all the info we need to complete tasks. She gave me wrong info at the first month so that I made mistakes, and she said that is my : communication problem.

I am the only Chinese in the company, which has more than 250 employees in Canada office. My English can not compare to others', but I believe it is fine enough for this job. My boss always tells CEO that she has to do the jobs that I am suppose to do, and whenever I ask her questions, she tells me she is doing other projects from CEO. Actually, she requires me to prepare all files for her, then she send it out to take credits.I have tolerated all these until....

She became very rude to me and keep blaming me all the time. No matter what I did, she refused it and told me to do opposite way. She never listen to me to finish a whole sentence. ( She never listen to anybody to finish one sentence except CEO)She always talks over others.She always mentions that I have communication problem. This if very hurtful..

I feel so frustrated everyday when I see her. I really want to leave this job asap.

I would like to ask everybody in the forum，do you have any suggestion to me Please. Now I am thinking about emailing CEO and HR to state all truth and my situation, or just taking a few sick days and vacations that I am entitled, and let company lay off me finally.

Waiting for your opinion. Also, please tell my honestly if my English is bad enough to have communication problem.

Millions thanks in advance!

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• I think you need some improvement -豬胖子- ♀ 給 豬胖子 發送悄悄話 豬胖子 的博客首頁 (76 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 16:22:47

• you mean my -norfil- ♀ 給 norfil 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 16:26:45

• You mean my English need to improve or -Norfil- ♀ 給 Norfil 發送悄悄話 (96 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 16:29:17

• "ask her to go lunch"??--she has every right... -撅著挺好- ♂ 給 撅著挺好 發送悄悄話 (250 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:21:59

• 如果我把這帖裏的內容email CEO , HR. 大家覺得行嗎. -Norfil- ♀ 給 Norfil 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 16:31:51

• 同意. -Norfil- ♀ 給 Norfil 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:27:19

• Try to talk with her in a more soft tone, if she could laugh you -我邊走邊問- ♀ 給 我邊走邊問 發送悄悄話 我邊走邊問 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:29:50

• 每天誇她十遍， erverthing you caught -我邊走邊問- ♀ 給 我邊走邊問 發送悄悄話 我邊走邊問 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:32:17

• 糖衣炮彈早試過了, 而且真心實意的轟炸... 沒用 :( -Norfil- ♀ 給 Norfil 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:36:54

• 把談戀愛的高招都用上，不信她不迷戀你 -我邊走邊問- ♀ 給 我邊走邊問 發送悄悄話 我邊走邊問 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:51:18

• his boss or girlfriend, i'm so confused~~ -撅著挺好- ♂ 給 撅著挺好 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:54:08

• 女老板也要有chemical,俺的前女老板也這樣，男老板告訴咱這個秘密， 不客氣地說 -我邊走邊問- ♀ 給 我邊走邊問 發送悄悄話 我邊走邊問 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:59:09

• 職壇二寶，你回來了，可想死兄弟我了。啥禮物給哥？ -眼冒金星- ♂ 給 眼冒金星 發送悄悄話 眼冒金星 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:47:08

• 土班長, 又需要您的高見了,請賜教阿. 真的很急 -Norfil- ♀ 給 Norfil 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 16:35:48

• Yes, prepare and talk to HR -美國老土- ♂ 給 美國老土 發送悄悄話 美國老土 的博客首頁 (215 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 21:26:45

• 回複：請教各位大俠：該不該放棄這份工，如果放棄該怎樣處理 -tobebest- ♀ 給 tobebest 發送悄悄話 (285 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:07:08

• 非常感謝. -Norfil- ♀ 給 Norfil 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:12:43

• ur English is not bad.... -撅著挺好- ♂ 給 撅著挺好 發送悄悄話 (358 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:12:52

• 謝謝：ur English is not bad.... -Norfil- ♀ 給 Norfil 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:16:25

• 謝謝 -Norfil- ♀ 給 Norfil 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:14:43

• 這個女人對每個同事都這樣, 除了老板和CFO, HR -Norfil- ♀ 給 Norfil 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:30:44

• 太好了: 給她倒賣到怡紅院得了。 -Norfil- ♀ 給 Norfil 發送悄悄話 (4 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:38:22

• i'll pay her a visit then~~ -撅著挺好- ♂ 給 撅著挺好 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:38:31

• I think your boss don't like you and want to freak you out. -我邊走邊問- ♀ 給 我邊走邊問 發送悄悄話 我邊走邊問 的博客首頁 (525 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:18:11

• 多謝：I think your boss don't like you and want to freak you out. -Norfil- ♀ 給 Norfil 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:22:10

• 詐弟弟， 好久不見， 這是在哪兒放光彩呀 -我邊走邊問- ♀ 給 我邊走邊問 發送悄悄話 我邊走邊問 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:28:00

• 帶回來幾個？ 談談約會地感受 -我邊走邊問- ♀ 給 我邊走邊問 發送悄悄話 我邊走邊問 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:34:47

• 問得好！同問：） -灰衣人- ♂ 給 灰衣人 發送悄悄話 灰衣人 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:36:47

• 寫出來看看，跑了哪些天上人間和豬死會社？你流鼻涕眼淚的， -灰衣人- ♂ 給 灰衣人 發送悄悄話 灰衣人 的博客首頁 (22 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:46:41

• 好啊，樓下的邊MM催著點哦。 -灰衣人- ♂ 給 灰衣人 發送悄悄話 灰衣人 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:52:47

• 我不催他，他會催自己， 這麽美的事哪能獨獨自埋在心底 -我邊走邊問- ♀ 給 我邊走邊問 發送悄悄話 我邊走邊問 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:02:51

• 哇， 正春風得意呢回味無窮呢，你可別唐突了美人，老流鼻涕的 -我邊走邊問- ♀ 給 我邊走邊問 發送悄悄話 我邊走邊問 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:46:57

• 老實交待，約會的時候沒有激動地暈倒？或裝做暈倒樣 -我邊走邊問- ♀ 給 我邊走邊問 發送悄悄話 我邊走邊問 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:56:28

• 那我們暈倒 -我邊走邊問- ♀ 給 我邊走邊問 發送悄悄話 我邊走邊問 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:03:49

• may i? i 'm so tired -撅著挺好- ♂ 給 撅著挺好 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:39:47

• I am bisexsual~~ -撅著挺好- ♂ 給 撅著挺好 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:45:09

• as well as my fake bra~~// we r freaking norfil out,haha~~ -撅著挺好- ♂ 給 撅著挺好 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:53:04

• 是呀。norfil姐姐心情被你們說好了。：） -Norfil- ♀ 給 Norfil 發送悄悄話 (24 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:50:02

• his boss is hopeless, i don't think one-on-one... -撅著挺好- ♂ 給 撅著挺好 發送悄悄話 (158 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:31:59

• 世界真小,我4年前和你一樣,90%相似度. -ranch99- ♀ 給 ranch99 發送悄悄話 ranch99 的博客首頁 (735 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:53:15

• 好貼，頂你。 -veggiedoggie- ♀ 給 veggiedoggie 發送悄悄話 veggiedoggie 的博客首頁 (93 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 17:58:17

• 呆在小城給饞的,現在回到加州,附近就有RANCH99 -ranch99- ♀ 給 ranch99 發送悄悄話 ranch99 的博客首頁 (50 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:02:42

• 回複：呆在小城給饞的,現在回到加州,附近就有RANCH99 -veggiedoggie- ♀ 給 veggiedoggie 發送悄悄話 veggiedoggie 的博客首頁 (243 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:08:12

• 經你一提醒,我又想起我的搬遷 -ranch99- ♀ 給 ranch99 發送悄悄話 ranch99 的博客首頁 (118 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:38:15

• me too -我邊走邊問- ♀ 給 我邊走邊問 發送悄悄話 我邊走邊問 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:00:39

• 別委屈自己,在哪兒都是賺錢. -ranch99- ♀ 給 ranch99 發送悄悄話 ranch99 的博客首頁 (237 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:01:12

• 非常感謝：別委屈自己,在哪兒都是賺錢. -norfil- ♀ 給 norfil 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:40:09

• 忘了提一招 -ranch99- ♀ 給 ranch99 發送悄悄話 ranch99 的博客首頁 (162 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 19:37:10

• Don't argue, just listen, and nod nod -man40- ♂ 給 man40 發送悄悄話 (211 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:14:03

• NO, -ranch99- ♀ 給 ranch99 發送悄悄話 ranch99 的博客首頁 (43 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:39:35

• 謝謝回複， 但是我還是決定走了。 -Norfil- ♀ 給 Norfil 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 18:42:09

• Talk to her boss before you quit. -jill08- ♀ 給 jill08 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 19:29:51

• This is the best among 36 options. -wxwxwxw- ♂ 給 wxwxwxw 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 19:56:19

• the best translation i've ever seen !! -撅著挺好- ♂ 給 撅著挺好 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:08:58

• 第三十六計走為上. LOL -jill08- ♀ 給 jill08 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:24:55

• More... -jill08- ♀ 給 jill08 發送悄悄話 (340 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:28:06

• my sequence of decision making based on ur options.... -撅著挺好- ♂ 給 撅著挺好 發送悄悄話 (169 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:35:26

• You are smarter. LOL -jill08- ♀ 給 jill08 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:38:46

• no, i'm coward, haha~~ -撅著挺好- ♂ 給 撅著挺好 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:43:57

• 一麵之詞，不足為信。你不是很適合與她配合工作。不是單方麵的。 -眼冒金星- ♂ 給 眼冒金星 發送悄悄話 眼冒金星 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:45:50

• u r only one remains sober in this forum. -撅著挺好- ♂ 給 撅著挺好 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:50:05

• 如果我自己認識到還沒有足夠好來承受，那就正確的思維。如果 -眼冒金星- ♂ 給 眼冒金星 發送悄悄話 眼冒金星 的博客首頁 (32 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 21:07:40

• wow，老金，說得太好了 -veggiedoggie- ♀ 給 veggiedoggie 發送悄悄話 veggiedoggie 的博客首頁 (35 bytes) () 11/24/2009 postreply 05:10:16

• agree what you said , may I have your suggestion , please -norfil- ♀ 給 norfil 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/24/2009 postreply 09:45:01

• honestly, do u guys all understand what he said? -撅著挺好- ♂ 給 撅著挺好 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/24/2009 postreply 14:47:56

• 我覺得你的回帖有道理，能不能提些詳細的建議， 謝謝 -norfil- ♀ 給 norfil 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/24/2009 postreply 15:50:56

• 我覺得職場第一原則是:你的直接老板都是對的.即使它錯了. -coolwin- ♀ 給 coolwin 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/23/2009 postreply 20:47:27

• Are you a woman? I always have trouble with Woman Manager -翩翩~~- ♀ 給 翩翩~~ 發送悄悄話 (206 bytes) () 11/24/2009 postreply 17:46:40

• You can find a way to do Internal Transfer. -翩翩~~- ♀ 給 翩翩~~ 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 11/24/2009 postreply 17:49:20

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