need advice

來源: Cathy_bay 2009-04-13 10:16:07 [] [舊帖] [給我悄悄話] 本文已被閱讀: 次 (1713 bytes)
This is a follow-up on a former post. My project has been taken away by a sr director. I was a bit upset about it. thought I can still handle this and work with the sr director. However after a couple of meetings, I realize there are some issues that may cause serious trouble for future. I am quite junior and pretty naive in many ways in politics. Want to learn some from this forum to get a sense of what I should do.

Sr director in those meetings tried to discredit my capability. In those meetings, he first challenged me on knowledge in the field. I guess he thought he had more training and experience (he is old) in general so he must know more than I do. Unfortunately he did not come out as winner. I did not realize this was a trap until a colleague warned me about it. He told me to be watchful in the future for traps like this.

Then sr director is seeking ways to say that I did not do my job well because there are a number of things that are not done yet, which is ridiculous since we are not at that stage to compelte those tasks.

Anyway, I thought I could work with him to get things done but it looks like he needs to strengthen his lead position here and want to make me look like a loser.

I thought about talking with my own boss. But this must be out of his hands too. He avoided talking about this. Then I thought maybe I should talk with our group lead. But I can't foresee what good would come out of the conversation except that I let him know that I am very unhappy about this decision.

I know I should leave. but job market is not so rosy. As of now most people tell me to be calm and try to work this out.

any advice comments? Thanks.

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回複:need advice -怪哉- 給 怪哉 發送悄悄話 怪哉 的博客首頁 (766 bytes) () 04/13/2009 postreply 10:39:27

I guess I am too dim on this. -Cathy_Bay- 給 Cathy_Bay 發送悄悄話 (81 bytes) () 04/13/2009 postreply 11:25:08

回複:I guess I am too dim on this. -怪哉- 給 怪哉 發送悄悄話 怪哉 的博客首頁 (140 bytes) () 04/13/2009 postreply 12:02:36

Thanks. -Cathy_Bay- 給 Cathy_Bay 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 04/13/2009 postreply 12:32:10

回複:need advice -sub101- 給 sub101 發送悄悄話 (925 bytes) () 04/13/2009 postreply 12:31:56

Some background -Cathy_Bay- 給 Cathy_Bay 發送悄悄話 (1168 bytes) () 04/13/2009 postreply 12:46:18

the root cause is you want to take all credit about the project, -dropinto- 給 dropinto 發送悄悄話 dropinto 的博客首頁 (24 bytes) () 04/13/2009 postreply 17:27:00

You may be right. -Cathy_Bay- 給 Cathy_Bay 發送悄悄話 (314 bytes) () 04/13/2009 postreply 17:41:38

wish you are all right -dropinto- 給 dropinto 發送悄悄話 dropinto 的博客首頁 (232 bytes) () 04/13/2009 postreply 17:57:38

not without me. it is the leadership role that was taken -Cathy_Bay- 給 Cathy_Bay 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 04/13/2009 postreply 18:00:11

that is the part I am not happy -Cathy_Bay- 給 Cathy_Bay 發送悄悄話 (109 bytes) () 04/13/2009 postreply 18:01:51

他們要啥你就給啥,leadership is nothing -dropinto- 給 dropinto 發送悄悄話 dropinto 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/13/2009 postreply 18:09:49

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