穿衣好看的小小竅門

剛才工作的時候不專心，開小差，網上看油管的博主們教穿衣打扮。我也躍躍欲試，總結了幾條立竿見影，穿衣好看的小小竅門。

 

1。穿衣注重整體效果，好看的第一要素是身材比例好。用服飾，鞋子營造出從頭到腰，腰到腳底1比1.618的比例，要極力避免五五開。無論服飾的圖案和麵料多麽高級，牌子多麽有名，樣式多麽流行，如果無法營造出上短下長的身材比例，也要目不斜視地離開，絕不多看一眼。

 

2。係上腰帶，強調腰際線。如果姐有不足盈盈一握的纖纖細腰那就不用多說了。即使腰身粗壯，係上腰帶也顯得有氣場，很自信，有發言權。腰帶一卡，身材的好比例就給定義出來了。

好鋼用在刃上，有錢沒錢多花一些在腰帶上。黑色，棕色，白色，紅色，金屬色，寬的，窄的，花式的，粗獷的，文藝的，多存幾條。無論如何搭配，腰帶總是可以起到畫龍點睛的效果。相對大幾千花在包包上，也許同檔次的腰帶和鞋子性價比更高。

 

3。一定要適當露出肌膚。腳踝，小手臂，脖頸下的三角區，身形再粗壯，這些部位一般都相對纖細，都適合大大方方地露出來。長袖襯衣，一定要扣上袖扣拉起或半卷起袖子，卷起的高度與腰帶的位置平齊。短袖T恤，也將袖子卷起一段小邊， 讓手臂側麵形成一個上弧形，造成手臂纖細的視覺誤差。或者幹脆就穿無袖的，隻是要注意衣服的肩洞一定要挖得合適，過小顯得局促，過大就是潦草了。

 

4。盡量選擇有領子的上衣或者連衣裙。無論長袖，短袖，帶領子的衣服自帶氣場，與沒有領子的衣服相比也正式多了，並且還有多種搭配的潛力，屬於非常省心的選擇。質地柔軟的麵料，沒有任何裝飾褶皺的圓領是最不容易穿出時尚效果的。所以T恤隻適合身材瘦削的年輕姑娘們。不想穿出胡同裏的大媽味兒，一定要離T恤能多遠，就有多遠。

穿沒有領子的上衣，需要特意製造出V領，多層次，看看古裝劇裏的女角們的服飾，就明白了。

 

5。一身白是夏季裏最高級的時髦。清爽，幹淨、簡單、克製的白，雖不著一色，卻能表達出非常豐富的個性。長袖，短袖，背心，長褲，短褲，窄裙，隻要注意好身材比例，選擇簡單和適合年齡的款式，隨便發揮，隻出彩不出錯。

 

[簡單一點好]

都是金科玉律。個人覺得隻要不過分注重打扮，適當美一美，也是可以的。想當美國大媽也是可以的，整天穿著T恤牛仔，也很瀟灑。

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回複 'elfie' 的評論 :
Thank you for leaving long comments on my blog. I appreciate your honesty and openness, and I'm glad that you feel comfortable sharing your thoughts openly.

I agree with you that it's important to be vulnerable and to let our guard down sometimes. It can be difficult to do, but it's worth it in the long run. When we open ourselves up to others, we create deeper connections and build stronger relationships.

I also agree with you that there are many different ways to enjoy life. Dressing up nicely is just one way, and it's not the only way that's important. There are many other things that can bring us joy and we should live the fullness of our life on the earth, as mentioned in Ecclesiastes 9:7-9, 7 Go, eat your food with gladness, and drink your wine with a joyful heart, for God has already approved what you do. 8 Always be clothed in white, and always anoint your head with oil. (not literally, meaning spending time and effort) 9 Enjoy life with your wife, whom you love, all the days of this meaningless life that God has given you under the sun—all your meaningless days. For this is your lot in life and in your toilsome labor under the sun.

I appreciate your sharing your thoughts about your mom's expectations. It sounds like she wants you to look your best because she loves you and wants you to be happy.

The longer you stay in America, this beautiful country formed by immigrants, the different lenses you will use to look at people, you won’t notice the skin color of the people. You will appreciate the diversity of the community and the different kinds of beauty from different races.

Finally, Just want to share a quote from Matthew 6:27, 27 Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life? It's a reminder that we shouldn't worry about things that are beyond our control. And you will find that almost nothing is under our control. So why worry about them?

[elfie]

I'm always amazed by the people or women like you. Honestly I don't care if I look good because very few people around me care about it. The people working in my school are mostly females and blacks. In this school no one cares about their looks. At another school I worked at before, teachers apparently dress better than this current one. Maybe that attribute to school performance too? Or it's just a coincidence and not causal effects. My mother, who lives 7000 miles away from me, is the only person that cares about fashion. And the most strange thing is she wants me to look good too. Why? it beats me. In the world I live in, dresses and skirts are so rare it's negligible. Most Americans are in T-shirts and weird tops and bottoms, too obese to fit into a nice dress or slacker. Beauty is not an issue or concern for most people. Indeed we live in different worlds, my mother and I. There is so much more to worry about in daily life than an outfit.

[一個沒有驚豔的老樹]

haha

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回複 '紅泥小火爐2022' 的評論 : 謝謝

[隻錄]

回複 '一個沒有驚豔的老樹' 的評論 : 肯定可以的。試試吧，實踐出真知啊。

[隻錄]

回複 'diaozhi' 的評論 : 您說得對，沒想替男士瞎操心。

[diaozhi]

謝謝。

不過，這些小竅門似不適用於男士？

[一個沒有驚豔的老樹]

若是六十歲的人，也這麽打扮嗎？

[紅泥小火爐2022]

很好的總結！