the untethered soul 和 I am having so much fun without you

周一重要把the untethered soul 讀完。我也很苦惱，為什麽這樣的好書我有時候就看不下去，應該說，書裏帶來的觸動太大，或是太激動，反而無法平靜下來讀完。這次在被圖書管理員斷然拒絕給我違規延期的刺激下，我終於讀完了。書裏麵的那些話真的感覺就是在說我。裏麵幾乎沒有廢話，所謂幹貨吧，不能摘抄了，以後估計還是要收藏這本書了。

我獎勵自己，或是。。。就來讀了這本小說 I am having so much fun without you。相比之下，小說厚一倍，我卻一氣嗬成讀完了。

因為書要還圖書館，所以抄錄下來這段比較觸動我的話
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And I can't let it matter. Because in the end, it doesn't. If I let it matter, we'll fall back into a cycle of resentment and claustrophobia again. I love her. I love her deeply. We are in this for the long haul. It isn't always going to be pretty, and we will fall again-somewhere down the road, one of us is going to mess up. It might not be with another person-it might not be an affair-but there will be a hurdle. A reckoning. And a making up.

Because in the end, that's why some of us stupid humans get married. Because we know that we can lose each other, and find each other again. Because we're capable of forgiveness. Or at least, we think we are. I would,'t have been able to forgive myself if I had been in Anne's position. And the fact that she had the courage to bring us back together makes me love her, and our small family, and our future even more
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