MY BELIEFS:
Van, Tanya
I believe-
that we don't have to change friends
if we understand that friends change.
I believe-
that no matter how good a friend is,
they're going to hurt you every
once in a while and you must forgive
them for that.
I believe-
that true friendship continues to grow,
even over the longest distance.
Same goes for true love.
I believe-
that you can do something in an instant
that will give you heartache for life.
I believe-
that it's taking me a long time
to become the person I want to be.
I believe-
that you should always leave loved ones
with loving words. It may be the last
time you see them.
I believe-
that you can keep going
long after you can't.
I believe-
that we are responsible for what we do,
no matter how we feel.
I believe-
that either you control your attitude
or it controls you.
I believe-
that regardless of how hot and
steamy a relationship is at first,
the passion fades and there had
better be something else to take
its place.
I believe-
that heroes are the people
who do what has to be done
when it needs to be done,
regardless of the consequences.
I believe-
that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
I believe-
that my best friend and I can do anything
or nothing and have the best time.
I believe-
that sometimes the people you expect
to kick you when you're down,
will be the ones to help you get back up.
I believe-
that sometimes when I'm angry
I have the right to be angry,
but that doesn't give me
the right to be cruel.
I believe-
that just because someone doesn't love
you the way you want them to doesn't
mean they don't love you with all they have.
I believe-
that maturity has more to do with
what types of experiences you've had
and what you've learned from them
and less to do with how many
birthdays you've celebrated.
I believe-
that it isn't always enough to be
forgiven by others. Sometimes you
have to learn to forgive yourself.
I believe-
that no matter how bad your heart is broken
the world doesn't stop for your grief.
I believe-
that our background and circumstances
may have influenced who we are,
but we are responsible for who we become.
I believe-
that just because two people argue,
it doesn't mean they don't love each other
And just because they don't argue,
it doesn't mean they do.
I believe-
that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a
secret. It could change your life forever.
I believe-
that two people can look at the exact
same thing and see something totally
different.
I believe-
that your life can be changed in a matter of
hours by people who don't even know you.
I believe-
that even when you think you have no more
to give, when a friend cries out to you
you will find the strength to help.
I believe-
that credentials on the wall
do not make you a decent human being.
I believe-
that the people you care about most in life
are taken from you too soon.
From Melinda Lam
我相信......
覃亞萬
我相信--
我們不需要改變朋友,
假如
我們知道朋友自己會改變。
我相信--
不管多麽好的朋友,
他們某時總會不經意的傷害您,
而您卻必須學會原諒他們。
我相信--
真正的友誼會不斷的生長,
盡管超越了最大的距離,
就象真正的愛情一樣。
我相信--
有時瞬間的過錯,
可以引起您
一生的心痛。
我相信--
我花了很長的時間,
才成長為
我自己希望的那個人。
我相信--
您應該向您的所愛表示您的愛,
那可能是
您最後一次看到他們。
我相信--
我們應該永遠的繼續向前,
直到我們
不能再行動。
我相信--
我們必須對
自己的行動負責,
無論我們如何感覺。
我相信--
您可以控製您的態度,
否則,
您就會被它所控製。
我相信--
無論起初您們的愛情是多麽的熱烈,
熱情過後,
最好有更美好的東西去代替。
我相信--
英雄隻做他們必須做的事,
而不在乎
它的結果任何。
我相信--
金錢是最糟糕的辦法
去贏得
您的價值。
我相信--
我和我的好朋友在一起
可以做或不做任何事情,
但總會是最美的時光。
我相信--
有時您認為在您摔倒時會踢你一腳的人,
會是那個
扶您站起來的人。
我相信--
有時當我生氣時,
我有權力生氣;
但那並不表示我有任何權力去表現殘忍。
我相信--
並不因為人們給您的愛不象您所期待的那樣,
就表示他們沒有給您
他們所有的愛。
我相信--
成熟在於
您經曆了多少和您學到了多少,
並不在於您過了多少個生日。
我相信--
我們不僅要學會原諒別人,
有時,
我們必須學會原諒自己。
我相信--
無論您有多傷痛,
這個地球,
不會為此而停止轉動。
我相信--
我們的背景和出身,
可能會影響我們的為人,
但隻有我們自己才可以把握自己成為什麽樣的人。
我相信--
並不因為兩個人有不同的意見,
就以為著他們不相互喜歡,
而有相同意見的人卻不一定相互喜歡。
我相信--
您不必要
渴望去獲得秘密,
它可能會改變您的一生。
我相信--
兩個不同的人看同一件事情,
卻可能有
截然不同的兩種觀點。
我相信--
您的生活可以被一些您所不知道的
人和事
突然改變。
我相信--
盡管您認為您已無所給予,
當朋友在您麵前哭泣時,
您仍然可以找到力量去幫助。
我相信--
牆上的證書
並不能證明您是一個
高尚的人。
我相信--
您一生中所關心和愛護的人
會太快的
離開您......
林愛香 轉送
追夢譯於 Saturday, December 30, 2000