Normally gay will tell you if you are their friend

I had an ex coworker couple years ago. We like to talk about camera during lunch break. One day he took me out for lunch and told me that he is gay. I was shocked and asked why he opened up to me. He said he knew that I'm an open mind person. He even had a cover up girl friend and real boy friend. I met all of them.

When I was single I living in a rental building which has monthly social drink in the lobby. I met two gay guys and they even took me to gay bar. They are more talkative than straight man in my opinion. They told me their feeling to other hansom man and their dating criteria.

All in one word, if you are friend with a man, he will open up to you with out your probing question....