(揭發:吾乃語言上的巨人,行動上的矮子,深受Easier said than done流毒之害,已不可救藥。 )
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I'm not going to sing praise to my late husband, not today. Neither will I talk about how good he was. Enough people has done that here. Instead,I want to talk about some things would make some of you feel a bit uncomfortable. First off, I want to talk about what happened in bed.
Everyone has difficulty starting your car engine in the morning. Horrrrr Kaaaaaa Keeeeee Horrrrr Gaaaaaa. That's exactly what David snoring sounded like.
But wait, snoring wasn't everything.There was also this rear end wind action going on as well. Some nights it would be so forceful, it would wake him up. "What was that?" he would ask. "Oh, it's the dog. " I would say. "Go back to sleep dear. "
All you might find these all very funny, but toward the end of his life,when his illness was at his worst, these sounds indicated to me that my David was still alive. And I wouldn't give just to hear those sounds again before I sleep.
In the end, it is these small things you remember, the little imperfections that make them perfect for you. So to my beautiful children, I hope one day you too find yourselves life partners who are as beautifully imperfect as your father was to me.
really???2009-04-21 16:33:35回複悄悄話
Oh? Is it for me?
My wife did something I don't like. To give her "a little color see 1 see", I won't go home on time today. I am browsing internet and noticed this one.
OK, it's time to go home.
To jj777hh: 謝謝推薦。但願我能找到視屏。
To 澀郎: 嗬嗬。
To GG2006: 過於扇情,影響化悲痛為力量了。
謝謝丁莊的update。
To 成長: 謝謝成長的深刻真情告白,給我的胡侃增加了額外的分量。
To 北美枵君: 長見識了。謝謝。
To really???: Goody, and give your sweet wife a big hug.
To sevenfish: 是啊,每個人都有一顆包容心,天地將更高更大。
To zhangnewlife: 我們從現在做起。謝謝。
還有一句我很欣賞的:don't fix it if it is not broken,中文如果說“沒事找事”就不好聽了,也是一種生活方法
謝謝, 我以轉載, 以字勉勵。
My wife did something I don't like. To give her "a little color see 1 see", I won't go home on time today. I am browsing internet and noticed this one.
OK, it's time to go home.
板橋有遺言:難得胡塗!
八卦雲:滿招損。
為不完美喝彩!!!
的確,Little imperfections make them perfect !不完美才是完美!
記得當我的孩子約十歲左右時,我也因生活的壓力疲憊而經常的和外子爭吵。。。
一次在爭吵後,外子說了一句:
“人家是婚前睜大眼,婚後睜一眼閉一眼。你可到好整個來個相反;你是婚前糊裏糊塗,婚後拿著放大鏡在找我的毛病。。。”
外子的話像一盆冷水般的澆醒了我。
人在壓力中因無法完全地接納自己,而開始找對方的“麻煩”。
在婚姻中,我們不能隻要好的喜歡的而挑剔不喜歡的。
猶如一個Package,我們應“照單全收”。欣喜我們所得到的,接納那些不喜歡的。這樣婚姻才能持久。
願在婚姻中的網友們,欣賞配偶的優點,接納配偶的不足。因為Little imperfections make them perfect !不完美才是完美!
[回複評論]
To 思路花雨: 同感,常常是失去了才覺得珍貴。 現實生活中,要把雙方很多壞毛病藝術化或平淡化,還真不是一件容易的事兒。Easier said than done.
To sleet: 的確感人,雖說隻是個廣告,卻非常人性、理性。謝謝。
很高興青柏的光臨,在dog88888博克見。
To 無忌哥哥: 武林高手光臨陋博,我三生有幸!
To Mulan_t: 謝謝你的垂青,轉吧,我深感榮幸。
To 姍姍來遲也: 盼星星盼月亮,終於看見你珊珊來遲的倩影,望眼欲穿啊!謝謝你!
To AnimatedCat : 謝謝指正。一顆包容的心裏盛的是愛。
To 閑人Filiz : 謝謝美女的支持!
To rebirth2009 : Yeap, the video is awesome and touching.
To 河裏的石頭1 : 謝謝石頭喜歡。
謝謝,真得很感動。我也希望有一天,我可以說我找到的伴侶的缺點是那麽的美。