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女兒的一些看法----有關MATERIALISM 和SHALLOWNESS

(2008-01-09 11:59:25) 下一個

有關MATERIALISM 和SHALLOWNESS

我與女兒SHARE THIS TOPIC,這是她寫的。

There is a difference between materialism and shallowness. Materialism in itself does not imply superficiality, but is merely a result of habit or lifestyle preferences. In our world of high-end consumerism, it is difficult not to covet brand names or material goods/comforts to a certain degree. If it becomes more than just a preoccupation, however, that could suggest an over-reliance on "stuff" to justify the value of one's life, when in fact, there is no such correlation.

Shallowness, on the other hand, can be said to imply selfishness and ignorance. It is the warped view of something from a one-dimensional standpoint, and is an issue of the treatment/perception of things that distorts/amplifies the object's surface gratifications and decries its true worth, OR overlooks the significance of other aspects of life/the world/etc. It is also an issue of misplaced values; the intense desire to project a life that is built on material objects for the purpose of justifying an otherwise hollow and empty life, or believing that the acquisition of "stuff" denotes a fulfilling and satisfying existence is not only shallow, but pathetic, and translates into a harsh inability to see beyond one's own selfish greed for transient things.

The combination of materialism and shallowness is lethal, as it demonstrates a rejection of any number of things, including spiritual, intellectual, and cultural values. In the event that one sees an object as the purveyor of his/her life, it’s easy to become blinded to all else. It also represents a frame of reference that is lacking in depth of compassion, emotion, and knowledge. Think about it, even a person of enormous wealth can be materialistic, purchasing a lot of "things" throughout his/her life. But in considering them as merely "things" and finding no intrinsic value in them, having no second thought about them, and certainly not revolving their life around them, this person still eludes the label of shallow because he/she strives to be reputed for other things, other actions. To put it simply, material possessions are not a measure of the value of one's life/achievement/goals.

If you want people to love you simply because you're rich, and you count on "things" to earn others' admiration, respect, and perhaps envy, then you're values are grossly misplaced. Shallowness can poison the way we view and deal with life, but more importantly, it is very obvious to others and is easily picked up by children. Garrulously touting one's wealth or possessions can only be judged as a sign of imbalance, confusion, and insecurity, a clear indicator that a person finds no other value in his/her own life besides the "things" they own.

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胡渙 回複 悄悄話 在這裏問個好!將門出虎女~~~
春江水 回複 悄悄話 老板娘你好!脫離世俗的見解需要智慧和勇氣!謝謝你!
春江水 回複 悄悄話 謝謝風清月白的COMMENT!你說得太好了。

我女兒21歲,是在COLLEGE。你女兒隻有8年級,對問題就很有見解。
加州花坊 回複 悄悄話 耶穌說:我來是要讓羊得聲明,並且得的更豐盛。當我們審視也速一後我們就會用新的人生觀生活,脫離世俗的見解成為新人。最好看看聖經啟示錄,就知道人死後會怎麽樣因為自己的行為受到審判。我去肯塔基得到了一套啟示錄的vcd.最近看完了收獲很大。
風清月白 回複 悄悄話 My daughter read the assay, then ask me how old is author. I told her I don't know。 She told me there are some words should be in college level. I don't know if that's true. She is 8th grader.

Later I asked her about shallowness. she said shallow is people only pay attention on their looks and surface. I asked why, she said when everybody does so, you are hard to get excluded.

後來,我想,有時候淺薄是因為缺乏自我認識和內在的安全感。他們並不知道自己真想要什麽,幹什麽,也不明白自己真的在乎什麽事或什麽人,隻是隨大流,人雲亦雲。所以,沒有追求,沒有愛好,沒有思想的人最容易成為淺薄的人。
風清月白 回複 悄悄話 我把這片打出來了,要給我的女兒看看。
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