柳永是中國曆史上一個並不大的人物。很多人不知道他，或者碰到過又很快忘了他。但是近年來這根柳絲卻緊緊地係著我，倒不是為了他的名句"楊柳岸，曉風殘月"，也不為那句"衣帶漸寬終不悔，為伊消得人憔悴"。隻為他那人，他那身不由己的經曆和那歪打正著的成就，以及由此揭示的做人成事的道理。
柳永是福建北部崇安人，他沒有為我們留下太多的生平記載，以[閱讀全文]
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Asawriterofromancenovels,Icreateexoticfantasies.Myheroinesarebeautiful,myheroesgildedwithatouchofthelegendary,myplotslargerthanlife.
Fanssometimesthinkofmeasan"expert"onlove,butmychildrenneveraskmyadvice.WhenItrytogiveitanyway,theyrolltheireyes.Tothem,I'mjustMom-tooimpossiblyold-fashionedandordinarytounderstandthewindsoftheirtimes.
Sincetheyhavereachedtheirteens,however,theiroftenpainfulse...[閱讀全文]
Fanssometimesthinkofmeasan"expert"onlove,butmychildrenneveraskmyadvice.WhenItrytogiveitanyway,theyrolltheireyes.Tothem,I'mjustMom-tooimpossiblyold-fashionedandordinarytounderstandthewindsoftheirtimes.
Sincetheyhavereachedtheirteens,however,theiroftenpainfulse...[閱讀全文]
(2009-08-25 01:56:28)
8FoodsYouShouldEatDailyforOptimumHealthByBeautySnobTinaOurtechnerdie,akaKelly'shusband,isusefulbeyondwords.Inadditiontokeepingusonlineandinbusinessbykeepingupwithallofourtechnicalwork,healsoscansthewebforarticlesthatwouldbeofinteresttous.ThisisoneofthearticleshesentmelastmonthwhichIthinkeveryBeautySnobshouldread!Ieatmostoftheitemsonthelistbutamnowmorediligentaboutallofit.Ibelieveineatingonlyfreshf...[閱讀全文]
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如果你願意我可以永遠像現在這般美麗因為我生而為愛癡迷如果你有情這世界可以不需要再有四季我的心早已經色彩分明多少愛情正甜蜜多少童話在凋零然而我始終相信我將得到永恒的幸運再也不必為情所苦真愛不用再分離隻要能用心經營就會幸福到底如果你願意我可以永遠像現在這般美麗因為我生而為愛癡迷如果你有情這世界可以不需要再有歌曲我的心早已經充滿了旋律如[閱讀全文]
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ByJOHNCLOUDJohnCloud
AsIwritethis,tomorrowisTuesday,whichisacardioday.I'llspendfiveminuteswarmingupontheVersaClimber,atoweringmachinethatrequiresyoutomoveyourarmsandlegssimultaneously.ThenI'lldo30minutesonastairmill.OnWednesdayapersonaltrainerwillworkmelikeafarmanimalforanhour,sometimestothepointthatIamdizzy-anabuseforwhichIpayasmuchasIspendongroceriesinaweek.Thursdayis"bodywedge"class,whichin...[閱讀全文]
AsIwritethis,tomorrowisTuesday,whichisacardioday.I'llspendfiveminuteswarmingupontheVersaClimber,atoweringmachinethatrequiresyoutomoveyourarmsandlegssimultaneously.ThenI'lldo30minutesonastairmill.OnWednesdayapersonaltrainerwillworkmelikeafarmanimalforanhour,sometimestothepointthatIamdizzy-anabuseforwhichIpayasmuchasIspendongroceriesinaweek.Thursdayis"bodywedge"class,whichin...[閱讀全文]
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見多了朋友間反目為仇的事，讓我對人性的弱點知之甚深。文革時期，我家的鄰居，一對從沒吵過架的恩愛夫妻，因為不同的政治觀點而打大出手，在我的心裏留下深深的印象。早年間總是有些感歎，歎人心的難測和感情的靠不住，而如今已看得開了。
少時的友情純真質樸，好同學、好朋友成天膩在一起從不嫌煩。當然，偶爾也有反目的時候，但友誼很快又會重新彌合。就[閱讀全文]
少時的友情純真質樸，好同學、好朋友成天膩在一起從不嫌煩。當然，偶爾也有反目的時候，但友誼很快又會重新彌合。就[閱讀全文]
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30.Themostobvioussuggestionistheoneseldomfollowed.Trytoattendoneormoredefenses
priortoyours.Findoutwhichotherstudentsaredefendingtheirresearchandsitinontheir
defense.Inmanydepartmentsthisisexpectedofallgraduatestudents.Ifthisisnotthecaseforyou,check
withyouradvisertoseethatyoucangetaninvitationtoattendsomedefenses.
Atthedefensetryandkeepyourfocusontheinteractionsthatoccur.Doesthest...[閱讀全文]
priortoyours.Findoutwhichotherstudentsaredefendingtheirresearchandsitinontheir
defense.Inmanydepartmentsthisisexpectedofallgraduatestudents.Ifthisisnotthecaseforyou,check
withyouradvisertoseethatyoucangetaninvitationtoattendsomedefenses.
Atthedefensetryandkeepyourfocusontheinteractionsthatoccur.Doesthest...[閱讀全文]
(2009-08-16 04:59:21)
Dissertation/ThesisGuide
1.Beinclusivewithyourthinking.Don'ttrytoeliminateideastooquickly.Buildonyourideasand
seehowmanydifferentresearchprojectsyoucanidentify.Giveyourselftheluxuryofbeing
expansiveinyourthinkingatthisstage--youwon'tbeabletodothislateron.Tryandbecreative.
2.Writedownyourideas.Thiswillallowyoutorevisitanidealateron.Or,youcanmodifyand
changeanidea.Ifyoudon'twrite...[閱讀全文]
1.Beinclusivewithyourthinking.Don'ttrytoeliminateideastooquickly.Buildonyourideasand
seehowmanydifferentresearchprojectsyoucanidentify.Giveyourselftheluxuryofbeing
expansiveinyourthinkingatthisstage--youwon'tbeabletodothislateron.Tryandbecreative.
2.Writedownyourideas.Thiswillallowyoutorevisitanidealateron.Or,youcanmodifyand
changeanidea.Ifyoudon'twrite...[閱讀全文]
(2009-08-16 04:57:59)
HowtoWriteaPhDThesis
introduction,Ithinkthatitisagoodideatoasksomeonewhoisnotaspecialisttoread
thissectionandtocomment.
References(Seealsounderliteraturereview)
Itistemptingtoomitthetitlesofthearticlescited,andtheuniversityallowsthis,but
thinkofallthetimeswhenyouhaveseenareferenceinapaperandgonetolookitup
onlytofindthatitwasnothelpfulafterall.
Appendices
Ifthereisma...[閱讀全文]
introduction,Ithinkthatitisagoodideatoasksomeonewhoisnotaspecialisttoread
thissectionandtocomment.
References(Seealsounderliteraturereview)
Itistemptingtoomitthetitlesofthearticlescited,andtheuniversityallowsthis,but
thinkofallthetimeswhenyouhaveseenareferenceinapaperandgonetolookitup
onlytofindthatitwasnothelpfulafterall.
Appendices
Ifthereisma...[閱讀全文]
(2009-08-16 04:56:35)
HowtoWriteaPhDThesis
Howmanycopies?
Talktoyouradviseraboutthis.Aswellasthosefortheexaminers,theuniversitylibrariesand
yourself,youshouldmakesomedistributioncopies.Thesecopiesshouldbesenttoother
researcherswhoareworkinginyourfieldsothat:
mtheycandiscoverwhatmarvellousworkyouhavebeendoingbeforeitappearsin
journals;
mtheycanlookupthefinedetailsofmethodsandresultsthatwillor...[閱讀全文]
Howmanycopies?
Talktoyouradviseraboutthis.Aswellasthosefortheexaminers,theuniversitylibrariesand
yourself,youshouldmakesomedistributioncopies.Thesecopiesshouldbesenttoother
researcherswhoareworkinginyourfieldsothat:
mtheycandiscoverwhatmarvellousworkyouhavebeendoingbeforeitappearsin
journals;
mtheycanlookupthefinedetailsofmethodsandresultsthatwillor...[閱讀全文]
