No one can change a genius's soical behavior, that is what a genius is: focused and dedicated to things he has a strong passion, and ignores all trifle things, that is what brings him so far. if you bring a genius into a life of ordinary people, he will lose all his confidence since he could not handle trifile things that ordinary people take these for granted.
There is a book "Beautiful Mind". Also, there is a movie from the book. It is a story of a true genius in science--John Nash.
Your writing is very touching.