J's first impression as a New Yorker

本帖於 2026-04-24 18:26:19 時間, 由普通用戶 暖冬cool夏 編輯

(Original--without ChatGPT's edit:-)

J becomes a New Yorker since her move in March, a city that draws young people. As expected, the apartment she moved in is small, old and expensive. The creaky wood floor even slanted a bit that table legs on one side needs a cushion to stay balanced. The building was said to be built in 1900s, with no elevator but a narrow corridor with stairs. A metal emergency stairs zigzag outside.

When J arrived on the first day of March, it was still freezingly cold winter. But the room temperature inside the building however was set around 76F, centrally controlled by the building, in compliance with the city's regulations. J had to leave the window open, even at night, to moderate the heat.

Then she caught a cold and was sick for weeks. 

On Aril 17, during a phone conversation with J, she told us that the temperature in the last few days shot up to 80s, reminding her of Shanghai's sultry summer. It lasted for three days before a thunderous rain cooled the area down.

J was leaning on her bed, her eyes glistening, her face glowing under the light, and her mouth flowing out her recent explorations of the city. She said she just got off from the art classes (she took two nightly art classes per week and planned to reduce to one when summer comes.), passing by streets that were still thronged with people at 10 pm. She seemed to be in good mood, and that sentiment quickly spread over to me at the other end of the phone.

she babbles on with more of her discoveries while we were having late dinner in the west coast.

-- In her rich neighborhood area, she saw African nannies frequent around with white babies in the baby strollers.
-- Flushing is almost on the edge of NY, and there are lots of Chinese there. 
-- Chinatown is just another dirty place, as dirty as New York, if not dirtier.
-- The line queued up for food distribution is long and slow. Among them, some Asian elders were patiently waiting in the cold. Why their offspring, who must have thrived, do not support them? Some Cantonese cannot speak English, like what she met in Hongkong last November. How could they survive without speaking the language?
-- Her prior co-worker purchased a high-end fake Chanel bag from a vendor on Canal Street. She waited for more than six months before it reached her after going through various venues to avoid the customs.
-- MoMA gives out the first year admission free with a value of $110. Afterwards, you get 50% discount for annual admission.
-- Met is free to all New Yorkers.
-- The weather there is similar to Beijing, but citywise, it is more like Shanghai and Guangzhou, modern and vibrant. 
-- New Yorkers don't actually welcome movers from other states. "It's already very crowded here, and more immigrants will only push the rent higher."
-- New Yorkers in particular don't like mid-westerners. But CA people are on a better receiving end. 

Hearing this, I quipped. "Is it because CA has more 'new' money? I then went on with a brief story of how people in Shanghai, after the skyrocketing development in the South in 1980s-90s, were challenged and how their egos were eclipsed by richer Cantonese, as well as people in Shenzhen, China's silicon valley, which leapfrogged to the front." She nodded. Our last November's visits of the three cities are still fresh, and the bustling streets in Guangzhou impressed her the most.

"Mom, do you know the expression of 'bridge and tunnel'?" When my response was negative, she asked me to find out online.
 
"You should write them down in journals, and one day you may write a book about New York." said I.

"I should." She winks at the idea. "You can write them down in your blog, Mom."

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A beautifully written Original! 10 fingers up 4 U! Have been -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/24/2026 postreply 15:45:05

in NYC twice, visited MET&Central Park, walked thru Brooklyn -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/24/2026 postreply 15:47:33

Bridge. The big Apple's full of American dreams,including J! -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/24/2026 postreply 15:49:39

Thank you,西島,for your reading & compliment! -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/24/2026 postreply 17:22:13

NY could be both heaven and hell:) 北京人在紐約裏就有一句類似的台詞:) -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/24/2026 postreply 20:06:02

Among young people, “bridge and tunnel” is a term New Yorker -JoyAnna.- 給 JoyAnna. 發送悄悄話 JoyAnna. 的博客首頁 (320 bytes) () 04/24/2026 postreply 15:59:27

Thank you,JoyAnna, for ur reading and comment. 有點忙(幹活),晚上再細回 -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/24/2026 postreply 17:25:19

I can't agree more that NY is not an ideal place for family -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (380 bytes) () 04/24/2026 postreply 20:25:16

Warm welcome again to New York, Wishing J all the best. : D -JoyAnna.- 給 JoyAnna. 發送悄悄話 JoyAnna. 的博客首頁 (760 bytes) () 04/25/2026 postreply 03:41:55

Many thanks again for ur warmth and kindness. Like CA,, -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (515 bytes) () 04/25/2026 postreply 08:01:33

It sounds like J is really enjoying life in Manhattan now -JoyAnna.- 給 JoyAnna. 發送悄悄話 JoyAnna. 的博客首頁 (198 bytes) () 04/25/2026 postreply 15:39:25

Thanks again! She is still in her honeymoon with NY:) -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/25/2026 postreply 17:32:02

I heard NYC boasts much better ethnic cuisines than SF Bay. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/25/2026 postreply 09:29:05

That and no need for driving sound great. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (149 bytes) () 04/25/2026 postreply 09:33:26

I'm not surprised. NY is a true melting pot, a place where -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (671 bytes) () 04/25/2026 postreply 14:59:26

a good reason for rucking. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/25/2026 postreply 15:24:35

How come I feel LA has more Chinese food options than NYC -JoyAnna.- 給 JoyAnna. 發送悄悄話 JoyAnna. 的博客首頁 (167 bytes) () 04/25/2026 postreply 15:42:10

LA does have some very good中餐館和墨西哥food.紐約的種類更多些:) -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/25/2026 postreply 17:33:39

我去南加,對LA印象比紐約好很多。莫非我們都覺得別人家的草坪總比自己家的綠。APAD說的沒錯哈,哈哈。 -JoyAnna.- 給 JoyAnna. 發送悄悄話 JoyAnna. 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/26/2026 postreply 02:59:59

True,grass is greener ....這邊的海灘特別多特別好,四季陽光。歡迎常來玩! -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/26/2026 postreply 07:44:13

So J has officially earned her New Yorker badge! Cool stuff. -renaulteu- 給 renaulteu 發送悄悄話 renaulteu 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/26/2026 postreply 07:47:55

Yes,and thank you for your reading and comment. -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/26/2026 postreply 13:06:07

Give credit where credit is due. No more and no less. -renaulteu- 給 renaulteu 發送悄悄話 renaulteu 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 04/26/2026 postreply 23:49:05

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