APAD:When life gives you lemons, make lemonade

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When life gives you lemons, make lemonade is a proverbial phrase used to encourage optimism and a positive can-do attitude in the face of adversity or misfortune. Lemons suggest sourness or difficulty in life; making lemonade is turning them into something positive or desirable.

Origins

The sentiment has often been expressed in varying words. Its first known print use, as attributed to Christian anarchist writer Elbert Hubbard in 1909 in Literary Digest, reads: "A genius is a man who takes the lemons that Fate hands him and starts a lemonade-stand with them." He also used it in a 1915 obituary he penned and published for dwarf actor Marshall Pinckney Wilder. The obituary, entitled The King of Jesters, praises Wilder's optimistic attitude and achievements in the face of his disabilities:

"He was a walking refutation of that dogmatic statement, Mens sana in corpore sano. His was a sound mind in an unsound body. He proved the eternal paradox of things. He cashed in on his disabilities. He picked up the lemons that Fate had sent him and started a lemonade-stand."

Although the first two known uses in print are by Hubbard, many modern authors attribute the expression to Dale Carnegie who used it in his 1948 book How to Stop Worrying and Start Living. Carnegie's version reads:

"If You Have a Lemon, Make a Lemonade."

 

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Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass. It's about -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 06:17:49

learning how to dance in the rain. -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 06:18:29

人生不是等著暴風雨過去,而是學會在風雨中跳舞 ~~ -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 06:19:42

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也是理科僧吧?跟一張 -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (82 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 09:04:43

very inspiring. -天邊一片白雲- 給 天邊一片白雲 發送悄悄話 天邊一片白雲 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 07:04:50

九十年代我老公從深圳出差回家特意帶了新奇水果檸檬和榴蓮。都被我仍進垃圾桶了。一個太酸,一個太臭。 -天邊一片白雲- 給 天邊一片白雲 發送悄悄話 天邊一片白雲 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 07:09:50

凡是鼓足勇氣吃榴蓮的,據說都會吃上癮 -移花接木- 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 08:11:55

是不是和吃臭豆腐一樣? -方外居士- 給 方外居士 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 09:01:18

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真被你說中了。我後來聽一個在新加坡工作了幾年的親戚說榴蓮很好吃。到了加拿大看有賣的。我買後捏著鼻子吃進去。一不小心上癮了 -天邊一片白雲- 給 天邊一片白雲 發送悄悄話 天邊一片白雲 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 09:10:50

讚一個!很有哲理. We may never have what we want in life, but -最西邊的島上- 給 最西邊的島上 發送悄悄話 最西邊的島上 的博客首頁 (113 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 07:52:41

always leverage and make full use of what we have already. 讚 -盈盈一笑間- 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 09:06:56

While chasing non-lemon, keep the lemonade recipe. -7grizzly- 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 08:56:39

Exactly ! :) -Oona- 給 Oona 發送悄悄話 Oona 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 12:53:23

Lemon is a secret weapon to make the pretty Mango cake~ -妖妖靈- 給 妖妖靈 發送悄悄話 妖妖靈 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 13:02:03

He cashed in on his disabilities. +1 給你什麽就享受什麽:)酸甜苦辣:) -暖冬cool夏- 給 暖冬cool夏 發送悄悄話 暖冬cool夏 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 18:15:59

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