APAD:A good listener is a silent flatterer.

A good listener is a silent flatterer.

Human beings have an innate desire to be listened, but only few are good listeners. So, if you listen to someone attentively, you’ll flatter them.

Example: One of the reasons I could build such a network of friends is my ability to listen (more than speak) to people. A good listener is a silent flatterer, after all.

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• Socrates was definitely NOT a good listener. He listened -7grizzly- ♀ (142 bytes) () 03/10/2023 postreply 15:57:27

• How to be a good listener? U might need 2 be in his shoes. -妖妖靈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/10/2023 postreply 16:10:00

• 別跑題啊，這意思是說，別人講話時你專注去聽而不是總插嘴等於是在恭維， -移花接木- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/10/2023 postreply 16:25:37

• 我怎麽覺得你接上下茬感同身受才是個好聽眾呢：）看到這個新聞，感覺買個顏色鮮豔的車很重要： -妖妖靈- ♀ (421 bytes) () 03/10/2023 postreply 16:36:02

• 兩隻耳朵，一張嘴，多聽少說 -移花接木- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/10/2023 postreply 17:19:40

• 關鍵是“good listener"定義，一言不發的未必叫good listenser, -移花接木- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/10/2023 postreply 17:26:14

• silent flatter不見得是不說話，或者可以指不說奉承話， -移花接木- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/10/2023 postreply 17:28:21

• 嗯，明白，就是少說話，更尊重人，所以反而比多說話的人更是一個flatterer。 -妖妖靈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/10/2023 postreply 18:09:03

• 那得加上身體語言，鼓勵的注意的眼神 和空洞的眼神絕對不一樣。 -jianchi9090- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/11/2023 postreply 04:09:28

• u got it, 這些都是成為一個good listener的要素 -移花接木- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/11/2023 postreply 04:42:02