LOVE, when it's given to us purely , or when it was injured. Everything else was like where was that again? but we remember exactly how we felt. Love is the only reality over and over again, it's the only truth. You had a choice on how you react, you could take the high road or the low road. When you choose the path of love, you never have to go back and fix it, you can accept it. Even you don't get the anser that you want, if you came out with love, then you've learned it, you've done it.
Without it you will keep trying over and over again, for whateverr is you want, until you find the love in it.