Some parents frequently complain about their children’s mi*****ehaviors. But more often that not, what they have are the children experiencing underlying barriers which prevent them from adapting socially acceptable behaviors.
Parents should be aware if children could do well they would do well. In other words, if the child had the skills to exhibit adaptive behavior, he wouldn't be exhibiting challenging behavior. That's because doing well is always preferable to not doing well.
Fixing a child is nearly impractical, removing barriers and deveoping skills, however, are relatively realistic and beneficial.