拜山習作 假內容真生活,長,別看花了眼

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I work in retails as a sales associate. We have competition to reach the sales goal. I always try to be honest, kind and fair my co-works and I expect to be same. Even though, I still was in cornered.

Yesterday. I was assigned at A zone for a late shift. There were 3 co-works already there. One of them was M. They stood around the counter, blocked all registers. It would be difficult for me to join in and get sales here.

It was not fair, but I accept the fact. So I started to help customers on the floor and took them to the counter to get sales. It was OK for me to work harder to catch goal. Luckily, I got a big sale on the other counter (which also belong to my Department).

After 6p, It was getting slower. On A-zone, two of the co-workers off work (they were early shifts). Only M there with 2 registers opened. I went back to A-zone because I was assigned there and it was a good spot for sales.

M is not my close-friend. I knew her personality.

M told me, today she got headache and her sales score was low. Honestly and frankly, I said I had reached my goal. She surprised and mad. She said, Oh! then you should leave here and let me stay alone to ring. or could you ring for me?

I can't re-write exactly her words in English, it was what she means, not friendly. I smiled but I didn't respond her( So far I just got chance to stand there. I didn't want to take un-friendly requirement).

I still helped customers at floor when she only waited customers at counter, and I brought my customers to the counter to check out. I didn't think I should give my sales to her.
After I finished a transition, she said: Yinzi, slow down. I smiled but ignored her. (actually now I have a better respond: No, I need hurry up when I work with you )

Not busy around 8p. I sew M talking with L, I sensed she was talking about me. I took a 15mins break to release stress however I felt. After Icame back, I got another sales. A lady I helped earlier came back to me. She said: I waited for you, you are so helpful.

It's getting slower. M and L standing there talking when I was doing cleaning. I walked close to that area.
M shouted: Yinzi, here has nothing! No customer here!
I didn't know how to respond, though I knew it was mean.
Continued, she announced to L and another co-worker: I didn't finish my goal today! Oh why? It is because of Yinzi! She grabbed all the sales!

Then Co-workers looked at me, one of them said: Yinzi oh you should share....

I didn't responded. So far I tried not to take it seriously. I try to smile, but not happy inside. It would be silly to explain the fact, my English is not good enough to "hit the nail on the head." I keep silence.

M announced: Yinzi grabbed all the sales. you know whom she learned from? oh I know, she learned from D....oh....blabla..
Now I was really irritated by her words. I avoid to look at her but my anger was raising.
It was not a fact. D was a former co-worker who was very aggressive in un-kindly way. Nobody liked to work with her. I don't think I am D style. On the other point, D and me are all Chinese and not speak English well. we are all hard-workers but shy and less social. Why M accused me for wrong things not base on the fact, and she banded me negatively with D who came from the same country.
I felt bad. I hope I could respond her quickly but I could not. Poor English. it showed to everyone, Yinzi was weak and she admitted what M said. I hold my anger but I was mad inside.

It was a bad affection she made. After a while, L was kidding me: Yinzi! I am not reach my goal yet! I will ring here, Please don't grab my sales!

In front of M, I spoke cleanly to L : Do you really believe what M said? Am I that person(she talked)? How did I treat you every time? Today I got a big sale, but not from this counter, I was kicked out, you saw that? Please don't learn from M and mean to me. She treat me bad today!
L retreated and mummer: everyone mean to me, I am not mean to you....
Marika retreated too. Nothing more happened. After a while M started to talk with me as nothing happened. Hi Yinzi, come here. Do you want to see how to access your ... see, I show you.....
I also pretend as nothing happened and said: OK, thank you.... (Better I say, NO thanks.)

I pretended peaceful on face, but I was hurt inside. I used to be very kind and helped her, but I she never return back. It was not the first time she require me to "Slow down" unfriendly. why she could always try to take advantage on me? Is the word "weakness" on my face? I am frustrated because I realized: Keep silence as a dumb is not the best way to avoid trouble, I need to say something promptly and smartly. Yes, I need to strong my English, and social skill.

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夜沙發,同學們莫笑我文化低,老婦嘮叨,sleep now. -xueyinyu- 給 xueyinyu 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 12/13/2011 postreply 01:10:37

早晨沙發。Thanks for sharing! -NewVoice- 給 NewVoice 發送悄悄話 NewVoice 的博客首頁 (801 bytes) () 12/13/2011 postreply 04:50:59

Very good advice. -jingbeiboy- 給 jingbeiboy 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 12/13/2011 postreply 07:19:34

京北早晨好! -NewVoice- 給 NewVoice 發送悄悄話 NewVoice 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/13/2011 postreply 07:40:30

謝謝。 Good Day. 回複:京北早晨好! -jingbeiboy- 給 jingbeiboy 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 12/13/2011 postreply 08:51:11

Like to read life story. -走馬讀人- 給 走馬讀人 發送悄悄話 走馬讀人 的博客首頁 (288 bytes) () 12/13/2011 postreply 05:47:31

Good. You can attend a workshop on ciritical conversation. -rockcurrent- 給 rockcurrent 發送悄悄話 rockcurrent 的博客首頁 (49 bytes) () 12/13/2011 postreply 07:55:30

Thank you for sharing. I feel your frustration -同學小薇- 給 同學小薇 發送悄悄話 同學小薇 的博客首頁 (237 bytes) () 12/13/2011 postreply 08:35:11

嗯,我們決不能因為語言被人bully。很高興你的真誠,來美壇大家一起學吧。 -beautifulwind- 給 beautifulwind 發送悄悄話 beautifulwind 的博客首頁 (551 bytes) () 12/13/2011 postreply 08:52:40

謝謝英子分享你的心得!再次歡迎你來美壇。 -非文學青年- 給 非文學青年 發送悄悄話 非文學青年 的博客首頁 (904 bytes) () 12/13/2011 postreply 09:36:22

謝謝大家的指點和鼓勵,我要來常這裏,goodgood studay,dayday up. -xueyinyu- 給 xueyinyu 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 12/13/2011 postreply 09:47:17

回複:拜山習作 假內容真生活,長,別看花了眼 -好學又好問- 給 好學又好問 發送悄悄話 好學又好問 的博客首頁 (554 bytes) () 12/13/2011 postreply 09:51:55

謝謝英子撰文,願你一切都好。 -祤湫霖- 給 祤湫霖 發送悄悄話 祤湫霖 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/13/2011 postreply 12:02:49

學隱喻 -- 好ID! -肖莊- 給 肖莊 發送悄悄話 肖莊 的博客首頁 (1027 bytes) () 12/13/2011 postreply 12:11:18

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