I can't address more how much I thank all the help and suggestions posted here. I know I sound like a psyco now. This issue has been several months, and it is really grilling me.
I really appreciate the response there
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                    My suggestion
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                        12/11/2012 postreply
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                    回複:My suggestion
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                        12/11/2012 postreply
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                    Just pretend that you didn't hear anything.
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                        12/11/2012 postreply
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                    for my money
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                        12/11/2012 postreply
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                    Did he demand you to put $2500 into joint saving account?
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                        12/11/2012 postreply
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                    he strongly suggested me to do that
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                        12/11/2012 postreply
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                    This sounds like troubled marriage
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                        12/11/2012 postreply
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                    Thanks. Now I only maximize my 401k
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                        12/11/2012 postreply
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                    為啥要給他媽和他兄弟4K一個月?太多了吧?
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                        12/11/2012 postreply
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                    his 2nd brother is still in college
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                    I asked whether his 2nd bro can do some part time job
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                    你老公這麽照顧他的家庭,也算不錯的人了。
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                    he knew how much I am contributing
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                    somehow I feel he is a person likes playing tricks
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                        12/11/2012 postreply
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                    he bought a new car recently
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                        12/11/2012 postreply
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                    要是一人一輛車的話,就不用糾結這個了。
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                        12/11/2012 postreply
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                    he told me that he is buying a new car
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                    I am driving a 8 yrs old honda accord
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                    8年新的車也不算舊,新車已經買了,就別盯住不放了,下次家裏再花大錢時你問清楚,一起做決定
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                        12/11/2012 postreply
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                    What does this mean?
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                        12/11/2012 postreply
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                    跟你說的意思差不多
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