he knew how much I am contributing

來源: twinlobster 2012-12-11 11:22:52 [] [舊帖] [給我悄悄話] 本文已被閱讀: 次 (1122 bytes)

because my spending is very clear and simple.

I suggested him to put all his income into our account, and then withdraw for each transactions, so I can tell how exactly he spends, but he refused because he feels controlled too much.

I can see his credit card, his individual bank account.

We have a investment account 60k. He set it up in his name a few years ago. The money is saved by both of us. I was stupid and neven think about it. Recently, I asked him to change it into joint account, he felt hesitated. He said "you think too much. I never try to cheat you on this." I said "if that is the case, can we change it into my name solely". He said "If you do it that way, that means you don't trust me, we should divorce if there is no trust. When I started this account without your name, I was so innocent because I didn't think about this issue, so I am innocent. But you intentionally try to put your name solely. That is the difference." Anyway, he agreed to change the account into joint.

Now he thinks that we roughly contribute equally to our small family.

 

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somehow I feel he is a person likes playing tricks -twinlobster- 給 twinlobster 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 11:30:02

he bought a new car recently -twinlobster- 給 twinlobster 發送悄悄話 (522 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 11:37:04

要是一人一輛車的話,就不用糾結這個了。 -是兔還是龍- 給 是兔還是龍 發送悄悄話 (37 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 13:24:33

he told me that he is buying a new car -twinlobster- 給 twinlobster 發送悄悄話 (182 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 13:31:13

I am driving a 8 yrs old honda accord -twinlobster- 給 twinlobster 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 13:33:17

8年新的車也不算舊,新車已經買了,就別盯住不放了,下次家裏再花大錢時你問清楚,一起做決定 -是兔還是龍- 給 是兔還是龍 發送悄悄話 (1697 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 14:09:45

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