這件事的被動之處在於你沒和頭兒反映過張三有多笨, 結果讓他惡人先告了狀。和頭兒談話時,注意力集中在你如何對, 而不是他如何錯。證明自己對是正能量,證明別人錯是負能量。即使你證明了他錯,對頭兒沒好處。但證明了你對,事情做得好,頭兒也省心。
(1) I feel sorry to call him lier in the meeting, but I turely think he is and it just came out from my month.
略過,談話的目的是商量如何把事情做好,個人之間的事不用提。
(2) I feel very frustrate to work with him. During the past several months, I feel that his action is not for the good of the project, but for showing his authority to me. He made the project cannot going smoothly, that is why I even took risk not following procedure to check in my code, which I think it is best for the project.
如果說你frustrated, 等於承認你不知如何與他相處,他對你的控告就有了可信之處。職場上誰談感覺誰先輸。對事不對人的說明你的做法是對的。
(3) I never broke any existed feature. We can check the code in source control, or revert my code to test again. It is not hard to verify whether I broke the feature or not.
既然證明你沒有出錯很容易,那就證明給頭兒看。
I have always tolerant him, but up to this point, I cannot keep this to myself any more. I dont mind he attack me, but he needs to be honest。
前後有點自相矛盾,既然你不在乎他攻擊你,他撒不撒謊也就無所謂了。可以對他的攻擊不動氣,但不能不在乎,否則成了受氣包了。
題外的話:溝通是職場順利的基礎。上行溝通尤其重要。遇到問題多和頭兒商量著怎麽處理,別等到小事拖成大事,爆發之後讓頭兒收拾殘局。