你這樣做就對了.很多國內來的要很長時間才學的會.

他們不理解在資本主義社會你自己要為自己維權.這樣反而能得到老板和同事的尊重.而且你對那個混混一定要劃清界限.分工明確.你幫他幹他該幹的活,搞社會主義,互相幫助是反抗資本主義的反動行為.資本主義社會,人不為己,天誅地滅.這個"為己"不是國內汙蔑的自私,而是真正的人權.美國人常愛說,愛哭的孩子有奶吃.實際就是一種通俗的經驗之談.資本主義社會的理論基礎之一來自<Wealth of Nation>一書. 該書就強調了每個人都要爭取自己利益:

“Every individual is continually exerting himself to find out the most advantageous employment for whatever capital he can command. It is his own advantage, indeed, and not that of the society which he has in view. But the study of his own advantage naturally, or rather necessarily, leads him to prefer that employment which is most advantageous to society... He intends only his own gain, and he is in this, as in many other cases, led by an invisible hand to promote an end which was not part of his intention”

你老板的熏陶,你公司的文化,保護我們的美國憲法,都是建立在這上麵的.在中國你爭取個人利益可能會被公司和社會擊敗(解雇,被人不恥,等等).在美國你不爭取個人利益會被看成於美國社會格格不如.