大家幫我看看這個印度大媽算不算是sexual harassment or verbal abuse or bully?

最近同組的印度大媽頻頻出言不遜，大家幫我看看怎麽辦？

事例一：公開給我advises:

Don't you have flat shoes? Wear flat shoes!

Don't you have pants? Wear pants!

Wear socks! It will get you one day!

事例二：幾次三番公開問我的年齡。給range,她不罷休。一定要確切年齡。

事例三：今天公然說：

Get a man! Or maybe get a woman. Hahahaha

然後說why don't you get a house? 然後說我想嫁闊佬。

平時就不喜歡此女。因為她has a reputation to get in other pp.'s business但是她坐我旁邊。別人和我聊天她總不請自到。覺得她在attack me。

請大家支招

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• 算， -Beaujolais- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 18:13:53

• yes. Report to the HR. -worriedmom1- ♀ (22 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 18:59:48

• It's harassment, if you feel uncomfortable -胡說之- ♂ (359 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 19:00:54

• 不一定. 她有感受, 我們沒在當場, 感受不到. -worriedmom1- ♀ (177 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 19:04:20

• 沒寫完，來個續集 -胡說之- ♂ (1017 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 19:52:13

• 很好的建議呀。 -小謀- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 20:12:27

• 謝謝大夥的回複。這個印度大媽很煩人。說點背景吧。 -彪悍的小石頭不用多說- ♀ (517 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 20:17:28

• 要想公辦就要收集證據，人證，物證，越多越好。 -Beaujolais- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 20:21:23

• 先不公辦。她還有mortage還有teenager給留條後路。下次她囗無摭攔我就損損她 -彪悍的小石頭不用多說- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 20:34:17

• 直接跟她說,hey, it's not your business -超凡脫俗- ♀ (56 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 21:07:27

• 對。我下次就說：mind your own business，mum! Or Get over it! Period! -彪悍的小石頭不用多說- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 21:10:50

• your ID says it :) -超凡脫俗- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 21:31:48

• 100% harassment。另外你們的Dress code是什麽？ -大寫2- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/15/2011 postreply 08:07:12

• 沒說不能穿裙子不能穿高跟鞋。我們要求formal我還被同事說you always look(dress) nice -彪悍的小石頭不用多說- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/15/2011 postreply 10:19:34

• 大媽經常在我穿的很漂亮的時候上下打量我（check me out) -彪悍的小石頭不用多說- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/15/2011 postreply 10:21:49

• 上照片證明“我穿的很漂亮” -半瓶水- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/15/2011 postreply 10:39:32

• 收回這句話：）反正意思是大媽好幾次上下打量我 -彪悍的小石頭不用多說- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/15/2011 postreply 13:14:18

• 你確定大媽不是老劉頭變的性？ -大寫2- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/15/2011 postreply 13:56:33