各位大俠給出出主意，我該怎麽辦？提前多謝了！！！

各位大俠給出出主意，我該怎麽辦？提前多謝了！！！
話說自己的前老板，60 左右的老女人，待人處事，一向是以對她自己的job security有沒有好處來決定。為此，得罪的人不計其數。
她所提拔的都是幹活不行，但是 obedient, 馬術一流的家活，隻要會拍，英語說不出囫圇句子都沒問題，反正提拔了這種人，也威脅取代不了她。本人不幸，屬於能者多勞，技術全麵，少數能有資格取代此老女人的候選人，也因此受盡她無所不用其極的壓迫。
如此曆盡艱難熬過三年，終於她在年中的改組中被安排去領導一個沒啥用的課題小組了。
三十年河東，三十年河西，恐怕她自己也沒想到：過去幾年她編造理由不給我晉升，現在輪到我給她年終評定出reference了。本想，反正她已經是昨日黃花了，過去就過去了。可是，我新來的老板是個很會play game的家夥，玩兒office politics很在行，現在我有機會不把跟前老板的醜話說在前頭，萬一現在的老板找前老板給我出reference, 那麽我就被動了;
可是短短幾個月的接觸，現在的老板也不象踏實幹活的人，我怕在他手下又出現功高蓋主的事，讓他嫉恨，那麽如此一來,我把跟前老板的醜話說在前頭, 給我的感覺好象：鷸蚌相爭，漁翁得利.
TNND, 現在這年月，混口踏實飯吃真難哪！請各位大俠多多指教，提前多謝了！！！

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• 回複：找個不懂的老板多少啊， 不聽你勸告， 你就慢慢和他耗吧 -quicktime2004- ♂ (40 bytes) () 12/14/2010 postreply 19:55:49

• 你怎麽對待前老板，現在老板猜你以後會這樣對待他 -Easy.Spin- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/14/2010 postreply 20:06:30

• 回複：你怎麽對待前老板，現在老板猜你以後會這樣對待他 -CristalDaisy- ♀ (124 bytes) () 12/14/2010 postreply 20:10:09

• You can offer objective input, but avoid personal attack -Easy.Spin- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/14/2010 postreply 20:13:56

• Is it difficult to differentiate objective input vs. personal at -CristalDaisy- ♀ (44 bytes) () 12/14/2010 postreply 20:20:56

• All I want is fair play, my former boss failed on this,and -CristalDaisy- ♀ (139 bytes) () 12/14/2010 postreply 20:13:47

• 實話實說,別指望前老板會給你出好的reference. -''''''- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 06:24:35

• praise her as much as you can -Kaolin007- ♂ (177 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 06:58:24

• I would like to try, but no one can imagine how's the hard time -CristalDaisy- ♀ (384 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 07:17:35

• 回複：I would like to try, but no one can imagine how's the hard ti -Kaolin007- ♂ (526 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 07:26:24

• No "thank you" notes for such good suggestion?? -Kaolin007- ♂ (50 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 07:57:12

• Thank you Kaolin, didn -CristalDaisy- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 08:08:44

• Thank you Kaolin, didn't get chance to write back, but -CristalDaisy- ♀ (635 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 08:20:17

• 回複：Thank you Kaolin, didn't get chance to write back, but -Kaolin007- ♂ (74 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 11:05:31

• You have received the best answer -胡說之- ♂ (275 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 10:05:02