Need your advice -- how to deal with this kind of people in team

Hi All,

I appreciate if you could give me some suggestions below.


I am working in an IT company in IL. Recently my manager (working in a remote site, and rarely comes to our office, only once every other month) said he has an opening for the team lead, and one of my Indian team member shows great enthusiasm after this meeting. Fairly speaking, this person is technically good. But personality wise, he is the kind of person who keeps talking and won't listen to other people. Of course, he shows a very different face when talking with managers, always showing humble and willing to listen to my manager. This is not only my point of view, more than half of the team here agrees with me that he is not fit for the team lead (I had lunch talk with other team members, and they are apparently upset about the idea he may be the team lead)

Since my manager said he will first consider internal candidate, and from what I heard he is one of the candidate. Recently this person starts behave like a team lead, sending emails with command internally (which already upset half of the team).

I really want to hear your opinion how I should bring up this issue with my manager before the final decision is made. Thank you very much for the advice!

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• 回複：Need your advice -- how to deal with this kind of people in t -mascotIL- ♂ (311 bytes) () 10/14/2009 postreply 16:15:38

• 最好啥也別幹，而且停止你目前的串聯活動，除非你想幹 -龍少爺- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/14/2009 postreply 16:32:10

• Thanks for the comments! Can we.... -mascotIL- ♂ (478 bytes) () 10/14/2009 postreply 16:40:23

• 不管他能否當選，你都在暴露你的弱點，誰當選都會防著你 -龍少爺- ♂ (116 bytes) () 10/14/2009 postreply 16:49:38

• Well said, and thanks much!!! But if that guy already know I and -mascotIL- ♂ (151 bytes) () 10/14/2009 postreply 17:03:12

• 金玉良言 -svcba- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/14/2009 postreply 17:03:20

• CO 金玉良言 -ololol- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/14/2009 postreply 21:32:19

• So am I doomed? -mascotIL- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/14/2009 postreply 17:32:53

• 你要相幹，可以讓你的team支持你 -胡說之- ♂ (96 bytes) () 10/14/2009 postreply 17:41:02

• Suggest some "good qualities" of the team lead -Easy.Spin- ♂ (373 bytes) () 10/14/2009 postreply 18:14:32

• Thanks a million Easy.Spin! That's an excellent idea!! :) Thanks -mascotIL- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/14/2009 postreply 18:20:37

• "Trust from team members" can be a quality -Easy.Spin- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/14/2009 postreply 18:56:42

• Thanks again, Easy Spin! Will add to my list! :) -mascotIL- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/14/2009 postreply 18:59:10

• My suggestion...if none's ever considered this... -HappyNow?!- ♂ (103 bytes) () 10/14/2009 postreply 19:34:29

• Thanks! Won't go that far though. :) -mascotIL- ♂ (1 bytes) () 10/15/2009 postreply 16:28:19