Unfair Treatment at Job. What to do? Please help.

Sorry I type Chinese very slowly, English is not all that good neither. Please bear with me.

The story is about my hu*****and's job. He works for a startup company that's doing quite well in Northern California. He has good relationship with his immediate manager, but bad relationship with his director, an old, mean spirited lady according to him. This lady does not respect any employees, she always make comments such as "if you make a mistake again, I will fire you!" "Is this a personal phone call you are taking? You are not suppose to take personal phone call, I will fire you!" "Go open your own company if you lose your job!" She's in total disregard to other people's feelings. Pretty much all the employees are disgusted with her except her own people that she brought in. But no one wants to offend her because of fear of losing job. My hu*****and is a a very straight forward person, and does not know how to pretend well when he's upset, I guess that's how he offended her when she made some nesty comments. This old lady also hates my hu*****and's immediate manager as well since he is not one of her own people. my hu*****and takes care many things for his manager, and since he does more than other people, he tends to make more mistakes too (做多錯多), but nothing major, or unfixable. So the director uses that as an excuse to request the manager to write him up. But the manager did not, and he also kind of got in trouble because of that. Now it's at year end review, my hu*****and got the least shares of stock among all his team members because the old lady got involved with the stock option granting. His manager feels very sorry since my hu*****and does much more work than other team member, and although he's favored by his manager, but the manager has no power to help.

Sorry about the long story, but just seeking some suggestions as what to do in this case. 天天咒那個老女人死也不是回事兒。另外我們也沒這麽毒。 隻好請大家幫忙想辦法。先謝謝。

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• 工作能力有兩方麵：一個是完成本職技術工作的能力（你的 -眼冒金星- ♂ (445 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:03:58

• 回複：工作能力有兩方麵：一個是完成本職技術工作的能力（你的 -逗- ♀ (215 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:27:32

• 沒事，慢慢train他，五年，十年就出手了。順毛驢，多抹什就順了。 -眼冒金星- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:36:46

• 公司裏kiss慣了, 回到家裏就給你ass了, 人總是要平衡的 : ) -問問玩- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 13:50:47

• 回複：公司裏kiss慣了, 回到家裏就給你ass了, 人總是要平衡的 : ) -逗- ♀ (146 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:26:47

• 毛驢的性格是什麽，多順順他的毛，就容易安靜聽話很多，如果 -眼冒金星- ♂ (401 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 15:32:34

• 回複：毛驢的性格是什麽，多順順他的毛，就容易安靜聽話很多，如果 -逗- ♀ (164 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 16:10:11

• 回複：回複：毛驢的性格是什麽，多順順他的毛，就容易安靜聽話很多，如果 -眼冒金星- ♂ (532 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 16:23:36

• “老公最聽話就是做愛後要啥給啥”---"後"改成"前"make more sense -撅著挺好- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 02:24:53

• 哈哈哈哈哈 -小謀- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 18:16:14

• 男人要有男人的樣, 說那種話的人我決不會去討好 -waitGC- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:24:21

• 回複：男人要有男人的樣, 說那種話的人我決不會去討好 -逗- ♀ (94 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:34:47

• 還有 -眼冒金星- ♂ (278 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:17:07

• 回複：還有 -逗- ♀ (106 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:36:32

• 國內念過重點的，學習厲害的人都這脾氣。沒辦法教育如此。隻 -眼冒金星- ♂ (25 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:39:25

• 回複：國內念過重點的，學習厲害的人都這脾氣。沒辦法教育如此。隻 -逗- ♀ (209 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:52:03

• ：）過日子本來就是如此。誠實是第一課，剩下的就靠你自己了。 -眼冒金星- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:55:26

• 既然沒身份問題, 有本事就走人, 沒本事就夾起尾巴做人 -waitGC- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:27:07

• 回複：既然沒身份問題, 有本事就走人, 沒本事就夾起尾巴做人 -逗- ♀ (76 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:52:42

• 非常費解！ -靜聽海- ♀ (132 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:31:04

• 回複：非常費解！ -逗- ♀ (65 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:58:23

• 你真逗！ -靜聽海- ♀ (388 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 17:18:23

• 看問題看本質，比我英文好多了。社會就是有不同聲音，都心大些。 -眼冒金星- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 13:19:34

• One thing I gave to tell you is that no matter what had happened -HenryLi- ♂ (566 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 13:51:29

• I have to tell you -HenryLi- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 13:52:11

• 回複：One thing I gave to tell you is that no matter what had happe -逗- ♀ (727 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:11:43

• 誰沒個情緒上的發表看法，沒必要道歉，這就是你的看法，做 -眼冒金星- ♂ (60 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:17:11

• I think it's ok even though I will become a 老女人 one day. -小謀- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:24:36

• 今天看你的眼光大不同，親一個。 -眼冒金星- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:26:16

• 那我今晚泡泡澡時就想著你吧. -小謀- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 17:51:37

• 哥就是那傳說。 -眼冒金星- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 19:49:25

• 回複：I think it's ok even though I will become a 老女人 one day. -逗- ♀ (71 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:29:50

• 打得一拳開,免得百拳來。知道自己做什麽，要什麽，就行了。否則 -眼冒金星- ♂ (24 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:25:04

• 回複：打得一拳開,免得百拳來。知道自己做什麽，要什麽，就行了。否則 -逗- ♀ (28 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:40:20

• 回複：回複：打得一拳開,免得百拳來。知道自己做什麽，要什麽，就行了。否則 -眼冒金星- ♂ (218 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:50:55

• 回複：回複：回複：打得一拳開,免得百拳來。知道自己做什麽，要什麽，就行了。否則 -逗- ♀ (130 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 15:05:27

• MD,人家一洗澡你就覺得人家可愛是不是？ -撅著挺好- ♂ (34 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 02:31:21

• 我隻能建議走人 -waitGC- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:23:11

• 添亂。姐姐慢走。 -眼冒金星- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:35:01

• 走人也未必是個解決方案，你和你哈斯本得的EQ都不夠高， 到哪裏 -幸福2006- ♀ (231 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 23:25:12

• Not a big deal -Kaolin007- ♂ (638 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 12:37:37