回複:嗬嗬,若你已強過他,所爭為何?right. 若你不如他,爭之何用?here is why

來源: Cathy_Bay 2009-02-25 12:02:32 [] [舊帖] [給我悄悄話] 本文已被閱讀: 次 (592 bytes)
回答: 提上來說處理爭論看那月光2009-02-24 22:30:58
If you are at a lower position, you need to make argument, not to win what you are arguing about, but to show this high position person that you have your own point, you have a different strategy, big picture view, or whatever that needs to move you up, and you can be positioned at a higher level. Without argument, they can't know anything about you.

Of cause, argument is not the only way. Saying sth in agreement is also useful. Teh effect however, is not as good as argument. When people agree with each other, the attention level is low. In argument however, everyone is hyped.

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yes, but argue in an unemotional way. being able to -pega- 給 pega 發送悄悄話 pega 的博客首頁 (73 bytes) () 02/25/2009 postreply 13:06:00

"argue" deos not mean "yell". -Cathy_Bay- 給 Cathy_Bay 發送悄悄話 (114 bytes) () 02/25/2009 postreply 14:56:13

And that's american way. If you don't like it -百萬富翁- 給 百萬富翁 發送悄悄話 百萬富翁 的博客首頁 (47 bytes) () 02/25/2009 postreply 16:54:22

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